Nov. 28, 2024

Thanksgiving, Sweet Nothings & Nostalgic Commercials

Thanksgiving, Sweet Nothings & Nostalgic Commercials

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*Head up listeners - this episode is a little less kid friendly than our typical episodes so maybe don’t give this one a listen in a full car!

Which one of us recently spent the night shoulder to shoulder with a celebrity? Here’s one guess. It wasn’t the one that said all she wants for Christmas was to sit on Santa‘s lap. This episode has us observing presence and presents … and a good old fashioned Christmas (the ones we grew up with).

We are back braving the online dating scene because the content is too good to skip. They’re showing us their muscles and we are asking to see their therapy bills. You’ll laugh and cringe at our tales of swiping on Hinge, including the hilarity of matching with a familiar face – yikes. We are giving him a hall pass and chalking this one up to “men really pay zero attention," because how awkward would it be to date a friend‘s ex-husband? That’s a no for us. I mean, let’s be honest. You heard us working on boundaries all year. We’ve gotta have a few by now right?

And it’s Thanksgiving day – so we are sharing the pandemonium of juggling family gatherings and school commitments. But also we take a second to express how truly thankful for this podcast and you listeners we really are. You have pushed us so much this year and we’ve grown so much and we’ve had such incredible guests because of the fact that you’re tuning in every week and that means the world to us!

We also take a minute - a trip if you will - down memory lane, but the Marketing version.  We dive into our favorite 90s commercials - from Campbell’s chicken noodle soup melting the snow off a boy who just came in from playing outside, Ronald McDonald on the skating rink, the Hershey kiss commercial, which we know, and love, the Oreo cookie commercial, where the young boy falls asleep before Santa makes it. And then, of course we start in on our favorite brands and the heartwarming magic of holiday to kids and adults alike. They always seem to know how to tug at the heartstrings. Even the California raisins, yes, we said it. We are California raisins - years old

There really is nothing like the classic joys of the Macy's parade, or watching Santa honestly at the very end, and all of the joy Christmas movies will bring us over the next few weeks.

From the classic vintage TV shows, to the memories and traditions that we are creating now with our own families (cue the modern Thanksgiving dinner) - we reflect on how these cherished memories deepen our connections with family and friends. Whether it's a sweet note scribbled on a napkin or a spontaneous "mushy attack," we're reminded that the simple expressions of love and gratitude truly make the season bright.

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Hosted by @raebecca.miller and @jennyfromthe843

00:11 - Southern Sayings and Dating Dilemmas

11:20 - Holiday Hustle and Gift Giving

19:49 - Nostalgic Holiday Commercials and Gift Giving

29:28 - Nostalgic Toy Stores and Commercials

39:15 - Nostalgic Movies and Nail Drama

49:17 - Pen Pals, Nostalgia, and Sweet Notes

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sweet potato pie and I shut my mouth you gotta sing it just like a song.

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You were just singing it.

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Gone, gone with the wind ain't nobody coming back again y'all everybody it was the pecan pie comment last week that barista is taking me to school I can't believe you didn't shit my mic's, not on minor detail ain't that something?

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ain't that something.

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So that reminded me the pecan pie of a story that I heard of our girls christmas two years ago here locally.

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One of them has a mom, one of my friends who is a widow, and one of our friends has an extremely attractive husband.

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Okay, well, her mom.

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She takes her mom everywhere she goes because her mom's widowed.

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You see that man's arms?

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Ain't that something?

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I feel like you told me about this moment before.

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I don't think I told you in a recording.

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She'll be like do you see his tan?

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Ain't that something?

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Every time they're with him, they get in the car.

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And it'll be like do you see that tan?

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Ain't that something?

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Every time they're with him, they get in the car.

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It'll be like do you see that?

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Ain't that something?

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ain't that something?

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that is like my favorite southern mama.

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Do you see that man's forearms?

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Ain't that something?

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I wish that my mama would say stuff like that.

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She does not say stuff like.

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She sounds kind of southern never, ever, said a word to me about how it's me.

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I'm like, oh my god where was that the other day?

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And I was like we were talking about something and it was somebody said like a real southern saying it god darn, I wish I could remember it was a good one, this stuff because I like to use it like ain't that, something ain't that, something ain't that something.

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You see a man squads.

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Did you ever follow those like real southern girls where they like did all the southern sayings?

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No, oh, they're funny, like real funny.

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I'll have to find that those real something though cracks me up.

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I feel like it's a really southern mom way of being like damn damn, gina.

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No, my mom has never said anything like that.

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I know my mom thought tom cruise was really attractive in top gun, but like the top buddy's hot back in the day he was, that's when that is the closest, yeah yeah, like og top gun, yeah, um.

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So, speaking of smoking guns, hot, I cannot believe I haven't told you the story was it for me?

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I mean, it could be when we were in new york we had dinner at this jazz bar slash restaurant called the roxy, and we both just watched the show.

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Guess who freaking walked in?

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Who?

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Stephen Colbert Liev Schreiber from the Perfect Couple the dad Smoke show.

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Dude, I normally don't like a gray man, although I'm not opposed.

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I love that there are a few out there he is Because we were sitting like literally right by.

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Is it just the fact that he, just like, exudes testosterone, but not in the like your brain is going to be?

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I will say this you felt a presence before you saw him.

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Like it was one of those things, like I felt a presence.

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I looked up at the hostess stand.

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I was like, oh, that guy looks familiar.

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I'm like, holy shit, that's the deal from the perfect couple I'm telling you, you can't dying dying.

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His wife is like 22 and like blonde and hot like he's under the spell.

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I will tell you this, though I I think we should briefly talk about, because I have a few girls nights coming up, and one of my favorite things to do is renew my Hinge membership before a girls' night, because, you know, I'd love to just hand it off.

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Yes.

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So I did two days ago.

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I would like to talk about something.

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Let's see.

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It's one very specific thing that they all have, and it's specifically the older ones.

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I'm going to show you a picture, but this, this comment again Green flags I look for Active, playful, communicates, great smile.

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I take great care of myself.

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I hope you do as well.

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They all look like this.

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We won't show it too fast or we'll show it really fast.

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You can't tell if it's like anyone that you know, but like and that one looks.

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Oh, I'll get you close up later, but I just want to.

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I want to change mine, I think briefly, to be like, please don't tell me about your workout.

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I understand that the aesthetic is there, but like I'd like to know what real work you've done.

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I'd like to know what narcissistic habits you've broken since your most recent marriage ended seriously and me, or therapy bill but like.

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Why do they not like ask questions or like talk about like themselves?

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It's not in such a superficial way.

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I just hate that they think it's enough to have gone to the gym yeah you going to the gym is not what put me in almost a coma mentally after my like.

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I just feel like it's like the least interesting, I don't know.

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Like give me something good, like what book did you read?

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Like visual people.

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So like, is that the problem?

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They just like stare at you and they stare at themselves, but like I, that isn't.

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That doesn't count, as I take great care of myself.

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Do you, do you, john, do you, or do you just have muscles?

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I like a muscle there.

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Also, I think it is important for you to know that somebody's dad that I know very well matched Shut up.

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I obviously did not let the match happen.

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Speaking of dilfs.

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But I'm like I don't know if you're paying attention at the events that we both attend, but it would have been more appropriate just to pull me aside, but to use this.

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That's awkward AF, I know, and so I'm just leaving it in purgatory yeah, I definitely keep the hinge.

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I feel like it's good content so much for you.

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I'm thankful for hinge.

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I'm so scared.

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It's every time I go in and I'm like okay that's great underbell thankful for hinge.

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Uh, yeah, maybe I'm like doesn't somebody just know like a really nice guy who's been like I'm watching too much hallmark, I think oh for sure, actually one thing there's no such thing as too much hallmark.

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Nothing there is.

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But all those guys are like dreamy and romantic but, but, like where is the man that's been trying to save his family's bakery?

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And it's finally to love.

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He's gay.

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That's why you're not seeing him on hinge, cause he's gay.

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I think some of these boys might be.

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I think they're just trying to find like which do you boo like?

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do your thing, but stop talking about the gym.

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Stop talking about the gym.

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Stop talking about the gym.

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One of the pictures it's only from the chin, it's his very first picture that you see is just his abs, and I actually have a rule.

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I have a couple rules, but if you have abs, it's not for me.

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I think that and I had somebody confirm this the other day.

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But, like, typically, if you have abs, I feel like that's a big red fat flag for narcissism, like you are literally so self-absorbed and like if you have your, he's pulling his shirt up in the picture showing them and I'm like that would be the bigger red flag than the abs themselves, I think for me no, it's the whole thing.

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Like when they have abs, they want to show them.

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That's like they're like.

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I need you not to see my personality.

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I've got something to show you.

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It's right by my dick.

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Sorry, dad.

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I don't know.

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I feel like if I had abs I would flaunt them like that, but I would not make it my profile picture would you flaunt them or would you just like wear them casually to an event?

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would you wear them to PTA?

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no, but I have seen some moms who do.

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There was one mom at our last school that I swear she, I don't she was trying to pull some ass or something, because like she dressed, like I was, like she was going to the club every school event I would like the name of that person okay, yep, happy to provide that yes, yeah, you know I already have a problem with the headbands and the perfect dresses.

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Somebody sent their child to the color run run and the mom was very chill, so I'm not trying to judge her but in a perfect white smocked dress and she was like but it said wear white.

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And I was like, oh dear lord, a beautiful white smocked dress with the color run, like it's gonna be okay.

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It's gonna be okay.

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You know, I love the leggings though.

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Yeah, I don't know, I don't do white anything, I can't.

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I do black everything.

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Well, I mean I do white but I feel like inevitably I get something on it, like I feel like I like travel with a Tide pen for that very reason.

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But then you get like the little spot I know, and then it looks like you just accidentally either drooled your toothpaste or you got caught up in something when you were leaving.

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Are you that person?

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if you're like walking, out the door and you see a spot.

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You like change.

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I typically wear black when I leave.

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You do, yeah, but I would, depending on where I'm going.

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I have this issue right now because I have this amazing flannel jacket I love, but it's going through its shedding stage.

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Yes, you know, I bought one too off Amazon.

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I have this issue right now because I have this amazing flannel jacket I love but it's going through its shedding stage.

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Yeah, yes, you know, I bought one too off Amazon.

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I love it.

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Yeah, like I.

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What's happening is I keep ending up in yoga, looking like I rolled around on my rug before I left.

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I'm like I really need.

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I've put it through the wash and dried it twice.

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I'm like I need you to chill with my shacket.

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It's like one of my uh-huh, it's like one of my favorite words to say I don't know why.

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Yeah, like I said it like at least 20 times in new york, I thought hillary was gonna kill me I really did.

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I tried to wear the costco one but it was too vertical in the shoulder cut and I that I always make like I'm gonna chop wood yeah, I definitely feel like I look a little butch in mine, but I'm just rolling with the flannel, yeah yeah, I mean it is what it is but, like in the costco one, I wanted to love it.

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I really I'm concerned I haven't really tried.

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Clark said it looked good on me, but she is 10 so I worry about it.

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But I think you would know, like the one in costco, I was like and here's the deal, I'm gonna be honest.

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If you have to chop wood or you have to dig a hole, you actually want me on your team.

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I'm fucking badass at digging holes just not a costco jacket.

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I just I want it to be a surprise.

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Yeah, I try to look as feminine as possible.

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I'm actually trying to be in my feminine era.

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I'm trying actually not to do that for you these days.

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Um, I'm just like, if you had to pick someone for your like uh, farmlands team, pick me, I've got the nails I feel like if I like killed night like you, you'd be one of my first calls yeah, easy.

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Well, I think the thing about you is you wouldn't ask questions.

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No, but even if you were building a garden that's how I know I'm good at digging holes I, like my friend Holly and I had built big gardens a few years ago during COVID, and she was like I am shook at how you are just fucking moving dirt right now.

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I was like I got you, I could do this all day.

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I'm built for like the long haul, it doesn't bother me.

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I'm here for that.

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You're on my speed dial.

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Get a few dishwashing gloves and let's go after it.

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See, that's the gloves.

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Gloves are necessary.

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I feel like I can't dig without gloves because it really does hurt your hands.

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You get calluses.

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I know Pilot's actually getting a few rips at gymnastics.

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It's like freaks me out and I try not to think about it, but like so we are grateful.

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Today is Thanksgiving.

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Happy Thanksgiving, you guys.

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We're thankful for you, so thankful, so very thankful it's been.

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I feel like one of our bigger conversations when we first started the podcast was about Thanksgiving Because, remember I was so bitter about it last year I wasn't going to say that God.

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I was like over it.

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Yeah, I think a lot was happening, but the holidays get like that for sure.

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I mean, we all know that Clark Griswold is actually not crazy.

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No, what happened was he was in the throes of holiday and Sparky wasn't crazy, although she was so hot.

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Well, as someone who has, well, I think you just have like all the family dynamics.

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Can you imagine, Like I have four sets of families because both of Nate's and I's parents are divorced?

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Nate's and I parents are divorced.

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I'm like just thinking about having two sets of parents in my home for christmas.

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It makes me want to take a xanax so is that what's happening?

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you're having everyone no, I'm not having anyone.

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We don't do that.

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We specifically split up travel for that very reason.

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That's perfect.

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Yeah, and my dad and them come over for like an hour.

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We usually do Christmas Eve with them.

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Unfortunately, we can't spend time with Nate's parents because they're in Florida, but we spend time with them in November.

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So yeah, but yeah, it's just, it's a lot.

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You're trying to divvy up all the weekends and you know you've got 800 school events.

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Dress like a Grinch day.

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You've got 800 school events.

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Dress like a Grinch day.

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Wear red, wear pajamas, bring popcorn.

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It's like, for fuck's sake, it's literally like pajama day, bring a million dollars to school day.

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I like literally I don't.

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And I have a friend whose dad recently joined on the element, the smaller elementary school guys like a dad's club now.

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So sometimes like the dads are at school shaking hands, which that's cute I saw it is but it's like could you guys do something?

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Could you guys do the bring a million dollars to school day?

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Can you do the color run?

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Would you do more than show up early and not help everyone get these kids dressed for school and then just shake hands like Like it's a very political role for me.

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I just feel like it's a cop out.

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So I'd actually like you guys to make the popcorn wreath or do something that doesn't.

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I just wouldn't.

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That's my vent.

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But now our school, like Nate's so involved I make, he does all the things.

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I mean we know this dad is on the email list and he is shook at how much goes on.

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He's like you don't read these all the time, do you?

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And the wife is like yeah welcome, welcome.

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Well, I don't know how you're doing in this year with two schools oh, it is craziness like I do good to just PTO and be a mom at the same.

00:15:26.135 --> 00:15:34.759
Like I don't know how you do both at both schools Principals letters, two different signing up for different events.

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And then I try to show up.

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A lot of us Like it's like you're never there.

00:15:37.950 --> 00:15:43.206
I'm like, oh no, oh, my God, I would do like what.

00:15:43.206 --> 00:15:45.106
I'm there all the time.

00:15:45.106 --> 00:15:48.846
It's because I didn't throw a color at her color run.

00:15:48.846 --> 00:15:52.385
She's like a little bit upset right now, but I'm like your color runs completely different.

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The spots were full.

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I also don't sit on my personal email.

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If you are emailing my personal email, you are hoping on a wish and a prayer.

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I didn't know.

00:16:04.028 --> 00:16:05.932
I had a water bill for eight months.

00:16:05.932 --> 00:16:11.769
You need to get a grip Like, so hold up.

00:16:11.769 --> 00:16:20.866
If you are emailing my personal email with the 11 spots for color on a giant school, how is anyone getting this?

00:16:22.020 --> 00:16:23.809
Oh, I get it, because I'm getting it, because they're.

00:16:23.779 --> 00:16:26.451
Apple watches and you know I'm not putting that're apple watches and you know I'm not putting that thing back on.

00:16:26.471 --> 00:16:28.014
I know you're not, I know actually.

00:16:28.014 --> 00:16:39.875
Nay, I was waiting for him to change out my band on it and I haven't had it for the past couple of days and it actually hasn't been half bad no, you're allowed to actually focus yeah, but yeah.

00:16:39.875 --> 00:16:49.370
So I feel like from now until december, and I love it, don't get me wrong, I love it, it's just a whole different million dollars a school day that I really got to hustle for.

00:16:49.480 --> 00:16:51.428
That's like the fee and all the business.

00:16:51.921 --> 00:16:52.943
It's all the business.

00:16:52.943 --> 00:16:54.087
I mean it really is.

00:16:54.087 --> 00:16:54.590
We're working.

00:16:54.590 --> 00:16:57.366
We just did a pie fundraiser.

00:16:57.366 --> 00:17:00.408
We sold 281 pies.

00:17:00.408 --> 00:17:02.182
Who's making the pies?

00:17:02.182 --> 00:17:03.823
A guy, citadel mall, a pie pies.

00:17:03.823 --> 00:17:04.384
Who's making the pies?

00:17:04.384 --> 00:17:05.326
A guy at Citadel Mall, a pie store.

00:17:05.326 --> 00:17:10.075
But you girls got to go pick them all up and I'm like are they going to fit in my car?

00:17:12.260 --> 00:17:16.561
Like then I got to divvy them out, but Is it one kind of pie or multiple kinds of pie?

00:17:17.104 --> 00:17:18.209
All the kinds of pie.

00:17:18.359 --> 00:17:19.625
Like this is too hard.

00:17:20.401 --> 00:17:22.840
All the pie, but it was a good fundraiser.

00:17:22.840 --> 00:17:24.844
So you know that was a good fundraiser.

00:17:24.844 --> 00:17:26.066
So you know that was a good idea I had.

00:17:26.086 --> 00:17:28.348
I mean, I love a good fundraiser, I just I do too.

00:17:28.670 --> 00:17:31.954
I do too, but truthfully, you know what one I really miss.

00:17:31.954 --> 00:17:37.346
Do y'all do like gift wrap anymore?

00:17:37.346 --> 00:17:41.113
No, remember how they used to do that at Parkness Preschool with the good gift wrap.

00:17:41.113 --> 00:17:47.163
Yeah, it was like that good thick con that was double-sided and it like didn't rip to shreds when you're going to cut it.

00:17:47.163 --> 00:17:47.945
I am.

00:17:48.446 --> 00:17:56.411
I would like to know, actually, if a listener has a good pair of shears, because I can butcher some gift wrap.

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Do you know that I've gotten to the point where I actually will fold over all of the edges so it looks like I cut it nicely, because it looks like a snaggletooth tiger, have you?

00:18:06.580 --> 00:18:12.204
not seen this Instagram ad for this like thing that literally rolls that you hold it up.

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I have the cutting thing and I just I cannot use it properly.

00:18:17.182 --> 00:18:25.861
So did you see that post on the mommy exchange today that somebody offered, like or recommended this girl to wrap all the presents and she, like you, can pay her to do this?

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I, I know that those people exist I would would say that I would never do that, but you better believe, I emailed her today oh, I don't I understand like.

00:18:40.855 --> 00:18:44.085
I feel like time is my currency the next five weeks.

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So your girl needs some help and I don't ask for help, so that's a big deal for me actually, I like literally fold the thing.

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I know that these people exist.

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There is so much.

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I'm all about outsourcing, especially if I'm terrible at it, and it's gonna cost me an awful lot of stress, so exactly and I love wrapping presents.

00:19:02.239 --> 00:19:08.173
I really do, but I'm just like you know, it usually requires like a day of me just being alone.

00:19:10.661 --> 00:19:15.090
Let's talk about this briefly Gift bags versus wrapped presents.

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Wrap Same I, but have you ever seen these pictures where the tree is all gift bags?

00:19:22.492 --> 00:19:23.904
It makes my eye twitch.

00:19:23.904 --> 00:19:25.874
Same Same.

00:19:25.894 --> 00:19:29.425
Yeah, no, there is something like I'll do a gift bag for a birthday.

00:19:30.028 --> 00:19:35.166
Yeah, and like casually here and there, but like do you know what I'm talking about?

00:19:35.166 --> 00:19:37.844
Where, like clearly, the whole family is the gift bag family?

00:19:37.844 --> 00:19:40.589
Yeah, and I'm like I can't get into this.

00:19:40.740 --> 00:19:44.412
There's like a serotonin drop for me when you rip up a present.

00:19:44.412 --> 00:19:48.143
Yeah, like a dopamine hit, dopamine hit.

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That's where I'm going, thank you.

00:19:49.767 --> 00:19:57.752
Yeah, I'm like that, like when I see the christmas tree and there's 9 000 gift bags, I am judging so hard.

00:19:57.752 --> 00:19:59.237
Yeah, I just don't.

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I mean, it's easy understand.

00:20:01.623 --> 00:20:02.625
Nope, that's what I don't like.

00:20:02.625 --> 00:20:03.688
I understand.

00:20:03.688 --> 00:20:12.619
If it's like a weird shape, cause everyone's smile, I'll get myself in a situation where I'm like, well, now what you know, like the rainbow corns yeah, all been through the rainbow corn circuit.

00:20:12.619 --> 00:20:17.420
It's a damn egg with freaking legs and arms flying out of it and a unicorn horn.

00:20:17.640 --> 00:20:19.040
I actually have learned to wrap those.

00:20:19.040 --> 00:20:21.463
To be quite honest, I I've done so many.

00:20:21.864 --> 00:20:25.606
Well, they usually come in a box, so if you don't jack it up you might be safe.

00:20:25.606 --> 00:20:37.844
But, like, there are moments where the gift bag, I understand like has a place, but if you are just punting a candle into a gift bag, I'm judging you 100%.

00:20:37.864 --> 00:20:39.076
I'm thinking you don't love me.

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Are you a rapper or do you leave gifts open that santa brings?

00:20:47.352 --> 00:20:51.065
oh, we have to tell people we're gonna put like a thing about not talking on this.

00:20:51.065 --> 00:20:59.065
Um, not sure, I guess are um it depends well, no, what is your philosophy?

00:20:59.165 --> 00:21:05.189
I'm not saying do you think santa should wrap gifts, or do you think he should leave them open for everybody to see?

00:21:05.288 --> 00:21:06.320
I think it just depends.

00:21:06.320 --> 00:21:12.653
Like I've seen it done both ways yes, santa does both in our house.

00:21:12.653 --> 00:21:23.444
Yep, it just depends on, like, the size, and I can tell, like one time the girls got a bar from santa and there was just a big bow on it and I have no idea how you would have ever attempted.

00:21:23.464 --> 00:21:28.751
Oh, my God, my brain totally just went to like a bar, like you, literally like a bar.

00:21:28.751 --> 00:21:31.461
It was a gymnastics bar, yep, yep, I got that now.

00:21:31.461 --> 00:21:38.141
Yep, no, I'm picturing like a poolside pull up a stool, budweiser, flashing light bar.

00:21:38.141 --> 00:21:39.483
That's where I'm at today.

00:21:39.483 --> 00:21:41.626
I have not been drinking From Santa.

00:21:42.087 --> 00:21:45.032
Guys, what is yeah, what is your grown-up Christmas list then?

00:21:45.032 --> 00:21:46.075
What do you want from Santa?

00:21:46.075 --> 00:21:58.205
I just want to sit on his lap, unless he's gray, no, I mean, if he looks like that guy, if he has big thighs and no abs.

00:21:58.527 --> 00:22:01.010
She's your girl, I love a thick boy.

00:22:01.201 --> 00:22:02.365
We know this.

00:22:02.365 --> 00:22:14.944
If you didn't see that door open before I walked through it, I mean you just have had a monday, but, like you know, the minute you started talking about santa I was thinking I'm sitting on his lap.

00:22:14.944 --> 00:22:16.106
Yeah for sure.

00:22:16.106 --> 00:22:22.167
Um presents and thoughtfulness, and I love christmas grown-up list I.

00:22:22.248 --> 00:22:26.119
The only thing I'm asking for is a gold cross necklace.

00:22:26.119 --> 00:22:30.028
Um, I thought there was something else.

00:22:30.028 --> 00:22:37.023
I wanted huh from jacob the jeweler I don't know, I really don't have a preference, I just want it to be dainty.

00:22:37.023 --> 00:22:39.087
Oh yeah, then for sure.

00:22:39.087 --> 00:22:40.863
Yeah, very thin, thin and gold.

00:22:40.863 --> 00:22:45.124
Um, I'm thinking about Botox.

00:22:45.124 --> 00:22:49.162
So I might ask for a gift certificate to a place.

00:22:51.306 --> 00:22:52.008
Yeah, that's all I got.

00:22:52.008 --> 00:22:52.509
What about you?

00:22:52.509 --> 00:22:54.602
I love that you're like thinking about Botox.

00:22:54.602 --> 00:22:56.240
I can go both ways on it too.

00:22:56.974 --> 00:23:05.137
I just feel like I've been thinking about it for so long and I just, I don't know, Like I'm so damn allergic to everything that I'm telling you I'm just really scared that I'm going to get it.

00:23:05.178 --> 00:23:12.351
And then I'm telling you, I'm just really scared that I'm going to get it, and then I'm a little way that guy on Star Trek or like Elon Musk what an ugly man.

00:23:15.194 --> 00:23:17.806
Well, I mean, I feel like a lot of people who haven't shouldn't have gotten it, and so I'm kind of like, oh my.

00:23:17.826 --> 00:23:18.529
God, I don't want to be that person.

00:23:18.529 --> 00:23:24.161
I think people get so carried away and I think a lot of people like I had a few friends start really young and they're like it's amazing, I'm like you're far too young.

00:23:24.161 --> 00:23:27.285
What's going to happen to you when you're like 50?

00:23:27.965 --> 00:23:28.266
Yeah.

00:23:28.767 --> 00:23:30.288
What is actually going to happen to your face?

00:23:30.288 --> 00:23:36.961
I don't know, but anyway so those are the only things I'm thinking about.

00:23:36.961 --> 00:23:39.771
That being said, I've definitely have like tattoos and I've put a few things in my face.

00:23:39.771 --> 00:23:40.515
Where's Santa when you need him?

00:23:40.515 --> 00:23:42.679
Where's Santa when you need him?

00:23:42.679 --> 00:23:45.605
Blame it on.

00:23:45.645 --> 00:23:52.479
McDonald's, so we're feeling very nostalgic.

00:23:52.618 --> 00:23:54.041
So we got to talking about, oh my god.

00:23:54.041 --> 00:24:10.589
I saw on instagram the old school campbell's soup commercial where the they're playing outside and he comes in and he looks like a snowman and he's eating the chicken noodle soup and he melts and like the TV is all grainy, like it was.

00:24:10.589 --> 00:24:23.563
And I was like, oh my God, back when they made commercials that were about emotions and not about things, because people would tell you, right now our commercials are about emotions Really, because the only emotion is more, more, more, more, more.

00:24:23.923 --> 00:24:29.391
Yeah, there's a more to chicken soup more and more and more and more and more.

00:24:29.391 --> 00:24:30.535
Yeah, there's a more to chicken soup.

00:24:30.535 --> 00:24:32.875
That is like.

00:24:32.895 --> 00:24:35.001
that commercial is one of my top like probably five commercial favorite commercials ever Ever so good.

00:24:35.001 --> 00:25:00.938
And I was like then I started thinking about the holiday ones and I was like these were really like I feel like you could have watched the TV and like now I got to watch Hallmark to get like an eighth of the hit of dopamine I could have gotten watching just the old school commercials back in the day, like that made you want to like be home, stay at home, do everything Like with it, cold outside, and like eating your soup or your you know cereal or I don't know.

00:25:01.018 --> 00:25:01.721
It was just such a.

00:25:01.721 --> 00:25:07.420
It was such a different, because I got down the rabbit hole today too and it was just like oh, my, like, what happened?

00:25:07.420 --> 00:25:08.582
Like where did things?

00:25:08.582 --> 00:25:09.583
It became?

00:25:09.583 --> 00:25:26.040
Things changed so significantly because I mean a lot of them I don't know if you noticed this, like in your kind of like research, but a lot of them were for mcdonald's, oh and like let's go please let's go through them because, like you know that I'm a mcdonald's girl when I text, we should talk about commercials.

00:25:26.101 --> 00:25:30.410
I was like I was just about the Campbell's one and we both have a very.

00:25:30.410 --> 00:25:33.036
We have a same favorite holiday commercial.

00:25:33.036 --> 00:25:38.734
We've talked about it here before, but the Hershey kiss commercial hardcore, simplest.

00:25:38.734 --> 00:25:45.219
It's the one where the background is white and they're digging like the bells and I don't know who came up with that, but that commercial still plays on my tv.

00:25:45.219 --> 00:25:50.407
It has passed the test of time forever and like that to me.

00:25:50.548 --> 00:26:02.939
But I didn't realize and I remembered all the mcdonald's ones how good they were they were so good and you remember they had such cool things and collectibles and it wasn't just a bunch of shit.

00:26:02.939 --> 00:26:06.190
You remember those like really cool like glasses they had.

00:26:06.190 --> 00:26:10.339
They had all different like theme things and it was just such a big deal.

00:26:10.359 --> 00:26:19.003
Like ronald mcdonald the hamburglar, it was an experience so the my favorite one of all the old school ones was the ice skating rink.

00:26:19.003 --> 00:26:20.887
Have you seen that one?

00:26:20.887 --> 00:26:22.218
Yes, you have.

00:26:22.218 --> 00:26:27.788
It's um, the boy is out there ice skating Like I don't know.

00:26:27.788 --> 00:26:35.026
He, like Ronald McDonald, comes out in the rink and it's like kind of dusky and it's like, yes, he like picks, scoops him up, whether he falls.

00:26:35.026 --> 00:26:42.326
I don't totally remember that part, but it's like so sweet and Ronald McDonald's like the hero and it's like not pervy or scary or anything.

00:26:43.536 --> 00:26:46.363
So seriously like when did we start transitioning to?

00:26:46.363 --> 00:26:48.607
Just like when we became obsessed with things.

00:26:50.416 --> 00:26:54.247
But how does that work for McDonald's it's just food, oh, I know.

00:26:54.247 --> 00:26:59.424
But then there became so many others Right, and then it became about like hold on, I'll be right back, you're fine.

00:26:59.424 --> 00:27:01.460
I got to shut the door on Bindi.

00:27:01.882 --> 00:27:02.383
You're fine.

00:27:02.383 --> 00:27:04.540
So, yeah, that was my thing.

00:27:04.540 --> 00:27:15.616
It was like you know, know, I feel like we had such these emotional commercials and then all of a sudden, there was this transition to where we just didn't and you just don't see commercials like that.

00:27:15.616 --> 00:27:21.762
I say that you remember, I love that public's commercial that comes out every around the holiday season.

00:27:21.762 --> 00:27:23.770
Pellets commercial always make me cry.

00:27:23.770 --> 00:27:26.220
I feel like they're always like I don't see very many.

00:27:26.220 --> 00:27:28.478
I feel like I do see a lot.

00:27:28.478 --> 00:27:35.059
I feel like it's my algorithm at home, like I feel like my everything listens, listens to me you seem to remember the other day.

00:27:35.099 --> 00:27:38.227
That was like congratulations to your 40s.

00:27:38.227 --> 00:27:43.602
Like you know, you're in your 40s when the song that you first made out to is now a song for CLS.

00:27:43.602 --> 00:27:53.142
I was like, oh my God, oh God, that's where we've become, that's who we've become now.

00:27:53.261 --> 00:27:54.877
But like or like that.

00:27:54.877 --> 00:28:00.260
You're like in the grocery store and that used to be like your club get ready list, and now it's like playing in the grocery store.

00:28:00.260 --> 00:28:04.204
It's playing an organ massage and you're like what I'm like.

00:28:04.204 --> 00:28:10.858
The thong song is I like.

00:28:10.858 --> 00:28:14.406
Walk through publics and buy my organic bread in your paper.

00:28:14.406 --> 00:28:14.827
A thong, oh my god.

00:28:15.067 --> 00:28:18.796
More than one occasion I'm telling you my first time wearing the paper thing.

00:28:18.796 --> 00:28:19.037
I have a.

00:28:19.037 --> 00:28:27.505
I actually have a picture of it, so we're gonna upload it to um man, the paper thong the body in the picture.

00:28:27.525 --> 00:28:29.855
Oh no, I'm just saying that's what you have the picture of.

00:28:29.855 --> 00:28:34.443
Yeah, they're very um, oh, they're not cute paper.

00:28:34.443 --> 00:28:39.884
Yeah, they chafe in all the right places mine was still like bubbly and big.

00:28:39.944 --> 00:28:40.729
I was like oh my gosh, you do.

00:28:40.749 --> 00:28:46.726
You feel like like a bubble butt, but then it's like a thong at the same time and mine was only bubbly in like the front.

00:28:46.766 --> 00:28:51.885
I was like, oh geez my favorite commercials were um do you want to?

00:28:51.965 --> 00:28:52.948
guess what was it?

00:28:53.148 --> 00:28:57.397
folders oh, that was a good when peter came home.

00:28:57.397 --> 00:29:02.645
Yes, oh god, but doesn't that just happen to your mama heart?

00:29:02.645 --> 00:29:03.907
I?

00:29:03.968 --> 00:29:06.618
mean I yeah, that's what it is.

00:29:06.618 --> 00:29:08.423
I don't, I just always loved it.

00:29:08.423 --> 00:29:17.166
I just loved it Like this little family was like together and he surprised them and then he was like making the coffee and it was all Christmas decorated.

00:29:17.166 --> 00:29:20.630
I mean this, I yeah, I just it's all the feels.

00:29:21.393 --> 00:29:22.898
All the feels that's right into my mom heart.

00:29:22.898 --> 00:29:23.701
I like, love it.

00:29:24.123 --> 00:29:24.505
I know.

00:29:28.295 --> 00:29:29.219
And then the Toys R Us kids are my jam.

00:29:29.219 --> 00:29:31.166
I can't even believe that that's not even a thing anymore.

00:29:33.277 --> 00:29:39.845
I'll tell you, we went to FAO Shorts when we were in New York and I love a toy store, do you?

00:29:39.845 --> 00:29:41.117
Is there anything better?

00:29:41.117 --> 00:29:46.402
I mean truthfully, you're just surrounded by all these fun toys.

00:29:46.402 --> 00:29:51.941
They have the piano, know the piano like from big yep, and there was a guy like running up and down it.

00:29:51.941 --> 00:29:54.445
I'm like bring back the toy store.

00:29:54.445 --> 00:30:03.307
I mean, yeah, and toys r us was just freaking magical, magical I, I do love like an old school.

00:30:03.669 --> 00:30:05.356
We have a good local toy store here.

00:30:05.356 --> 00:30:06.097
We do.

00:30:06.097 --> 00:30:07.039
I was there today actually.

00:30:07.039 --> 00:30:09.703
Yep, they also speaking of wrapping.

00:30:10.125 --> 00:30:13.636
They wrap for you oh honey, I've already been on the phone with about an hour ago.

00:30:13.636 --> 00:30:16.124
They were like hey, we got these things in that you wanted.

00:30:16.124 --> 00:30:17.115
You wanted me to wrap them.

00:30:17.115 --> 00:30:20.227
I'm like, sign me up yes, ma'am, I do wonderworks.

00:30:20.588 --> 00:30:21.250
They're the best.

00:30:21.250 --> 00:30:24.519
They have a big christmas festival coming up here in a couple weeks they do.

00:30:24.519 --> 00:30:26.763
I think we're gonna go yeah, it's a really good time.

00:30:26.763 --> 00:30:27.886
We've been multiple times.

00:30:27.987 --> 00:30:37.728
I like love it but I went today to do a little early shopping, which we need to talk about, and I went today and they were like oh well, good thing that you came in.

00:30:37.728 --> 00:30:43.003
We're pre-selling that item because it's going to be the 2025 hot new toy.

00:30:43.003 --> 00:30:46.357
And she was like you need to.

00:30:46.357 --> 00:30:49.761
It's glad that you're the second one on the list, so it's probably good that she came in here.

00:30:49.761 --> 00:30:53.355
I need to know immediately, okay, yeah, she said it's really awesome.

00:30:53.797 --> 00:30:58.484
So okay, cool one that I loved the oreo commercial.

00:30:58.484 --> 00:31:01.128
They had great commercials.

00:31:01.128 --> 00:31:06.304
I know where he's waiting for santa and then his little pajama as he falls asleep.

00:31:06.304 --> 00:31:09.778
I'm sorry, but like I just like live for that, like it's.

00:31:09.778 --> 00:31:26.384
There's the Polaroid one where they're also waiting for Santa, literally set it up on the stairs, turn their backs for three seconds and the thing goes off and he's already gone and it's on the Polaroid and I was like I forgot about Kodak and Polaroid.

00:31:26.384 --> 00:31:28.647
So Kodak is fun fact.

00:31:28.647 --> 00:31:32.538
I grew up in Rochester, new York, which is the home of Kodak.

00:31:32.538 --> 00:31:35.767
Oh, my dad worked for Kodak forever.

00:31:35.767 --> 00:31:37.737
All my friend's dads worked for Kodak.

00:31:37.737 --> 00:31:39.761
It was like everywhere it was.

00:31:39.761 --> 00:31:44.919
I mean it was literally what made a big part of like Rochester grow.

00:31:44.919 --> 00:31:45.701
It was it's.

00:31:45.701 --> 00:31:51.240
I mean a lot of that is now gone or like run down, but at the time when I was a kid it was everything.

00:31:53.124 --> 00:31:54.847
Yeah, I love those commercials.

00:31:54.847 --> 00:31:56.097
Those are good, nostalgic ones.

00:31:56.097 --> 00:31:58.443
You know, I feel like I don't know.

00:31:58.443 --> 00:32:00.007
I hate commercials these days.

00:32:00.007 --> 00:32:00.736
I really do.

00:32:01.777 --> 00:32:03.940
Normally like, superbowl will be here in February.

00:32:03.940 --> 00:32:06.123
I freaking, we love Superbowl commercials.

00:32:06.123 --> 00:32:11.730
I know we're going to do the same thing, but like it's because they're they're all about like more, more, more.

00:32:12.070 --> 00:32:35.819
Like it's like buying the next thing, super expensive things, all this crazy consumption, and then it's all like computer shit do you feel like it's that I mean, I do think that's some of it or do you feel like it's the feeling of the simple times that, like we watch commercials now we're like, oh, that was so amazing, such a great commercial, but in reality our parents be like, I mean, it was just a commercial.

00:32:36.181 --> 00:32:36.863
Like I don't know.

00:32:36.863 --> 00:32:38.896
I think my mom would tell you that it was like.

00:32:38.896 --> 00:32:40.661
I think she would agree.

00:32:40.661 --> 00:32:46.182
I feel like maybe it's different for us because we're like, we specifically really like commercials.

00:32:46.182 --> 00:32:51.025
I I know other people are like I wish this wasn't live, so I could you know fast forward through.

00:32:51.025 --> 00:32:51.747
I'm like wait a minute.

00:32:52.536 --> 00:32:56.605
No, I love, I'm telling you, I love a commercial like good commercials.

00:32:56.605 --> 00:32:58.028
I love my Publix commercials.

00:32:58.028 --> 00:32:59.938
I love a Budweiser commercial.

00:32:59.938 --> 00:33:04.528
Yeah, I used to love um, I don't know if you remember this.

00:33:04.528 --> 00:33:07.123
This was like not, it was like early 2000s.

00:33:07.123 --> 00:33:10.048
Do you remember the Hillshire Farms commercials?

00:33:10.048 --> 00:33:12.319
They had these really catchy tunes.

00:33:12.319 --> 00:33:19.463
One of them I studied and I would walk around singing it.

00:33:19.463 --> 00:33:22.724
My friend Screws lived with me at the time.

00:33:22.724 --> 00:33:28.058
We would go walking around and it was the one where I was like go, go meet.

00:33:28.058 --> 00:33:30.536
I said a beef hot link.

00:33:30.536 --> 00:33:32.359
I said a beef hot link.

00:33:32.359 --> 00:33:33.240
Do you remember this one?

00:33:33.842 --> 00:33:36.548
yes, go meet.

00:33:36.548 --> 00:33:38.171
I cannot take arby's.

00:33:38.171 --> 00:33:40.037
I'm like who's arby's in business?

00:33:40.357 --> 00:33:41.440
it was just so good.

00:33:41.440 --> 00:33:48.451
And I know you remember, like the Orbit ones, like the lint licker, where they like don't want to cuss.

00:33:48.451 --> 00:33:52.018
Yes, I, just, I love that In the scheme.

00:33:52.018 --> 00:34:01.565
Of those, my favorite are the Mayhem commercials, and I'm not even saying that because that's our oh my God, it is the that and the guy who is like don't want you to be like your parents.

00:34:02.527 --> 00:34:10.884
Yeah, whatever his name is, I understand he's like teaching you the classes, but the mayhem commercials specifically like any of them.

00:34:10.884 --> 00:34:36.824
But the one I really love is the guy who's like obviously like an international spy or something and the mom calls at the most inappropriate time and he's like literally fighting crime and he thinks it's like the helicopter calling him to like save him and she's like, well, the squirrels are back, your dad's really taking him whatever to it this time.

00:34:36.824 --> 00:34:39.472
And he's like mom and she's like, what's all that noise?

00:34:39.472 --> 00:34:39.893
Are you in a class?

00:34:39.893 --> 00:34:44.882
And he's like literally fighting off like bad guys and she's like, well, your dad's taking it personal.

00:34:44.882 --> 00:34:49.568
And I'm like, is that like so true for?

00:34:49.668 --> 00:34:50.730
life so good.

00:34:50.730 --> 00:34:51.940
They're so, so good.

00:34:51.960 --> 00:34:57.659
I had forgotten about that specific one, though oh my god, it makes me just like your dad's taking it personal.

00:34:57.659 --> 00:34:58.762
What's all that noise?

00:34:58.762 --> 00:35:00.085
Are you in a zumba class?

00:35:00.085 --> 00:35:11.681
I can't, but it could be like the garage door and like a tree falling, like the mayhem commercials, because some of that stuff there's like kind of a twist on that, isn't it?

00:35:11.681 --> 00:35:12.244
Who is it?

00:35:12.244 --> 00:35:15.304
Is that I don't remember whose brand actually is mayhem?

00:35:15.304 --> 00:35:19.543
But then you have the guy who has like the hall of fame for like accidents.

00:35:19.543 --> 00:35:21.168
Oh yeah, oh yeah.

00:35:21.168 --> 00:35:24.876
You were driving and you were eating mac and cheese and a seagull flew out of somewhere.

00:35:24.876 --> 00:35:28.742
Eating mac and cheese and a seagull flew out of somewhere and like it's like the most chaotic stuff, but it's like really happened.

00:35:29.023 --> 00:35:32.577
I'm like yeah, those are the emotional ones are like the ones that get me.

00:35:32.577 --> 00:35:34.762
They just don't make them very often anymore.

00:35:35.043 --> 00:35:39.059
They really don't I need funny, though I need funny emotional.

00:35:39.139 --> 00:35:42.827
I could do either uh, yeah, I I go both.

00:35:42.827 --> 00:35:47.237
I don't know I I probably leaned more towards the emotional.

00:35:47.237 --> 00:35:50.237
Now that I think about it, they just get me right in the feels.

00:35:50.778 --> 00:35:56.128
It was supposed to be christmas oh god, um, the red and green m&ms.

00:35:56.128 --> 00:36:00.043
There's a good commercial with santa, where she's, you know, sitting on his lap.

00:36:00.043 --> 00:36:10.750
Yeah, staying true to the theme here, um, I love that, but I also do truly believe in my heart that the red and green M&Ms taste completely different than the rest of the M&Ms.

00:36:10.750 --> 00:36:12.260
There's something special about them.

00:36:12.260 --> 00:36:13.780
My kids feel the same way.

00:36:14.315 --> 00:36:14.878
I feel that way about.

00:36:14.978 --> 00:36:15.400
Easter M&Ms.

00:36:15.400 --> 00:36:19.846
My college roommate, adrienne, also feels that way about the Easter M&Ms.

00:36:19.846 --> 00:36:24.463
I think it's the pastels, I think that's probably what it is.

00:36:24.463 --> 00:36:31.954
But I actually had to text her on Friday because I don't get garbage pickup on Friday and this used to be an argument.

00:36:31.954 --> 00:36:35.425
And when we lived together because we never lived together we had like what we did.

00:36:35.554 --> 00:36:44.302
But in our apartment we had separate rooms and I'd always take the garbage out every morning because I can't stand garbage, and she would get like kind of upset.

00:36:44.302 --> 00:36:51.380
She's like you never give me a chance to do it and I think it felt like you know whatever.

00:36:51.380 --> 00:36:56.780
And so I was bringing it to the garbage can at night and I said to her like a really like crazy self and I was like don't worry, it's actually still in me as I'm going to do.

00:36:56.780 --> 00:36:59.206
It was never personal, it's not personal.

00:36:59.206 --> 00:37:17.309
Now I actually just really don't like garbage and so I'm taking it it's 11 o'clock at night and walk into the garbage because you can't do it.

00:37:17.309 --> 00:37:17.769
It's not personal.

00:37:17.769 --> 00:37:19.494
If you ever for once really thought for a second that it was, it's not age.

00:37:19.494 --> 00:37:21.115
I love you my little.

00:37:21.115 --> 00:37:21.657
Like yoga, adrian.

00:37:21.657 --> 00:37:24.465
I always think of her too now when I'm in yoga because, like I don't know, she's a hoop.

00:37:24.465 --> 00:37:30.822
It's like yoga, but chaos, which I feel like, is like me and yoga, and also Sandra and yoga.

00:37:32.005 --> 00:37:32.686
Yeah, I would imagine.

00:37:32.686 --> 00:37:32.847
So.

00:37:33.737 --> 00:37:35.264
I mean like mats everywhere.

00:37:35.264 --> 00:37:40.601
Today we were trying like three new poses and I was like one of us is going to fall on the other.

00:37:40.601 --> 00:37:47.188
I looked at her and she started laughing and I was like, ooh, it's probably going to be Some.

00:37:47.188 --> 00:37:50.123
I don't even know the names of these things, sometimes I think they just make them up.

00:37:50.123 --> 00:37:55.947
But it was like, okay, get in this ball and then grab your other, take your opposite hand and grab your opposite foot.

00:37:55.947 --> 00:37:58.619
I'll stand up and reach for the sky.

00:37:58.619 --> 00:38:01.447
And I was like we are definitely going to eat shit.

00:38:02.195 --> 00:38:02.797
Did you get that thing?

00:38:02.797 --> 00:38:03.298
I sent you that.

00:38:03.298 --> 00:38:05.224
Or speaking that sounds like a twister position.

00:38:09.375 --> 00:38:10.581
Oh yes, yes, there's that thing I sent you that are speaking.

00:38:10.581 --> 00:38:11.525
That sounds like a twister position, oh yes, yes.

00:38:11.525 --> 00:38:22.003
There's moments, though, where I'm just like I don't even I might need you to demonstrate that I don't think he's doing it right, I don't think she's doing it right, and I have no idea what you're asking for me oh my gosh, it's so.

00:38:22.103 --> 00:38:26.478
I will say this, though Sandra looked at me today and she's like I think this is really good for your brain and my brain.

00:38:26.478 --> 00:38:28.983
I was like like I think so too, but I want you to tell me why.

00:38:28.983 --> 00:38:31.407
Crazy.

00:38:31.407 --> 00:38:40.039
And she was like well, because our brains are busy, but here, if I stop focusing on her for three seconds, I fall over, and I was like same.

00:38:40.860 --> 00:38:43.748
Yeah, well, I think that's exercise in general.

00:38:47.875 --> 00:38:50.005
Like, I feel like when you're no, my mind won't wander when I lift weights, my mind will wander.

00:38:50.025 --> 00:38:50.347
Oh see, no, like.

00:38:50.347 --> 00:38:55.581
I feel like the gym's like the one place that I'm really concentrating on what I'm actually doing, and don't let any like outside your gym.

00:38:55.581 --> 00:38:56.224
They like, don't they?

00:38:58.655 --> 00:39:00.519
coach you through the next, the next.

00:39:00.519 --> 00:39:05.518
That's why I think when I'm on my own and doing weights, it might take me two hours to get out of there.

00:39:05.518 --> 00:39:09.206
I am literally like you I lose my own self.

00:39:10.315 --> 00:39:12.864
Yeah, I'd definitely do better to have somebody scream at me, for sure.

00:39:14.297 --> 00:39:15.260
I don't want them to scream at me.

00:39:15.260 --> 00:39:19.438
Hope's voice is very relaxing, the way she talks to me.

00:39:19.438 --> 00:39:24.297
I need like a boy version of Hope, so I need you to bring some masculine.

00:39:24.297 --> 00:39:27.766
But like, talk to me like that Really.

00:39:27.766 --> 00:39:30.443
Yeah, like this morning when she started out.

00:39:30.443 --> 00:39:39.940
I don't want it to be like all feely, but like the way that she speaks it, I don't, I can't like she also has a presence, even though she's like 90 pounds and beautiful.

00:39:39.940 --> 00:39:41.938
Yeah, like, just own.

00:39:41.938 --> 00:39:49.344
As soon as she starts talking in the room, she owns it and I'm like see that kind of leadership I'm good for Like I just like she's like, just so.

00:39:49.344 --> 00:39:57.516
Everyone knows I had some dental work done, so I am smiling with you, but you won't be able to see the full expression and then moves right into.

00:39:57.556 --> 00:40:06.601
I'm like what did she even just say Like okay, don't you worry about expressing yourself, I got it.

00:40:07.101 --> 00:40:07.905
I love that.

00:40:08.494 --> 00:40:12.987
I know I don't know if I would be able to like deliver it the same way she did.

00:40:12.987 --> 00:40:19.436
There's a noisy breather in our class and today he put his mat next to me and that was very hard for me.

00:40:20.717 --> 00:40:23.063
I don't like a noisy breather.

00:40:23.563 --> 00:40:28.139
Well, and it's like there's this Ujjayi breath that you're supposed to do like through the back of your throat.

00:40:28.541 --> 00:40:32.027
That's what she said I know Probably.

00:40:32.047 --> 00:40:41.335
He said I'm not going to do it on here, but this person's Ujjayi breath is very strong and I'm sure that's wonderful for them.

00:40:41.335 --> 00:40:44.661
However, I felt like I could feel it on my shoulder blades.

00:40:44.681 --> 00:40:46.583
Oh, that is the worst.

00:40:46.583 --> 00:40:53.878
That is the worst Hot, wet breath near me, or I can feel it.

00:40:53.878 --> 00:40:56.842
It's like a very I don't care if you're a human or a dog.

00:40:56.842 --> 00:40:58.221
I cannot handle it.

00:40:58.221 --> 00:40:59.699
I cannot handle it.

00:40:59.739 --> 00:41:01.739
I know Bindi, my old dog.

00:41:01.739 --> 00:41:11.376
Bindi's breath smells like she ate a corpse and I'm just like God damn Like what.

00:41:11.376 --> 00:41:17.757
Smells like she ate a corpse and I'm just like god damn like what and I keep trying to feed her like random breath treats but I'm just like literally smells like you ate a corpse, boozey's kind of smells like that too.

00:41:17.757 --> 00:41:19.240
I'm just like stop.

00:41:19.240 --> 00:41:20.143
What is that about?

00:41:20.143 --> 00:41:21.827
You have like a hot?

00:41:21.907 --> 00:41:24.398
wet and stinky bowl about it, but puppy breath so cute.

00:41:24.398 --> 00:41:25.478
Oh, I love puppy breath.

00:41:25.478 --> 00:41:26.440
I puppy breath is so cute.

00:41:26.942 --> 00:41:28.503
Oh, I love puppy breath.

00:41:28.503 --> 00:41:30.226
I know it's so cute.

00:41:30.226 --> 00:41:32.068
Okay, do you have another commercial?

00:41:32.068 --> 00:41:34.318
Yeah, mine aren't Christmas though.

00:41:34.318 --> 00:41:35.503
Okay, that's fine.

00:41:35.503 --> 00:41:38.521
I was going to ask if you want to talk about movies too.

00:41:39.443 --> 00:41:43.289
Okay, I'll just give you like two more.

00:41:43.289 --> 00:41:50.577
Okay, I used to love the paste picante sauce, really, you know.

00:41:50.577 --> 00:41:51.039
Give you like two more.

00:41:51.039 --> 00:41:52.103
Okay, um, I used to love the paste picani sauce, really.

00:41:52.103 --> 00:41:57.833
You know, the commercial new york city, you know it's like the cowboys and they're sitting around new york city.

00:41:57.833 --> 00:42:01.181
It's so funny.

00:42:01.181 --> 00:42:02.003
I like that one.

00:42:02.003 --> 00:42:03.224
I always thought that was really funny.

00:42:03.224 --> 00:42:05.956
And then, um, you know, my family is swiss.

00:42:05.956 --> 00:42:10.447
Like all my grandfather, my, my mothers and my grandfathers, he came directly from Switzerland.

00:42:10.447 --> 00:42:12.871
So the Ricola commercial.

00:42:13.072 --> 00:42:13.275
Oh yeah.

00:42:13.396 --> 00:42:14.481
Remember when we had the thing?

00:42:14.481 --> 00:42:17.202
It was like Ricola, yes.

00:42:17.222 --> 00:42:17.864
I love that one too.

00:42:18.054 --> 00:42:19.728
Those were probably two of my favorites.

00:42:19.728 --> 00:42:20.675
They remind me of my childhood.

00:42:21.576 --> 00:42:29.590
I had around the entire perimeter of my room up against the ceiling on the wall I had got milk ads.

00:42:29.590 --> 00:42:33.157
Oh, those were hot, Three single ones.

00:42:33.157 --> 00:42:39.601
It was like a thing for my friends to like find one that I didn't have and they like lined my room forever.

00:42:39.601 --> 00:42:41.405
I wish I had them now because they're so good.

00:42:41.755 --> 00:42:57.427
They were so good I had completely forgotten about those I know, and like then I like learned a lot about the milk industry and I was like, ooh, I can't get excited about that, but, um, I like literally loved them so much and there's like a science to like how they would get the mustache.

00:42:57.427 --> 00:43:05.780
But like then it was like ice cream and like cause it had to be thick like a whole.

00:43:05.780 --> 00:43:07.164
I like loved those.

00:43:07.164 --> 00:43:08.166
I had so many.

00:43:08.554 --> 00:43:09.880
That's so funny and random.

00:43:10.456 --> 00:43:15.284
I would buy magazines just to be able to see the ads in them.

00:43:15.284 --> 00:43:17.820
I was a big fan of People Magazine just to see the ads.

00:43:20.056 --> 00:43:21.239
Did you have any more commercials?

00:43:22.563 --> 00:43:24.362
No, I just didn't run to me and they got mocha ads.

00:43:26.597 --> 00:43:27.360
What did you want to talk about?

00:43:27.360 --> 00:43:28.960
Movies Christmas.

00:43:29.755 --> 00:43:37.905
When I was watching, a lot of them lead up to the movie and so I was going to say, like, how much do you like love?

00:43:37.905 --> 00:43:42.702
I'm assuming you're the same I don't know the old school like Rudolph the red nose reindeer.

00:43:43.664 --> 00:43:44.226
I love him.

00:43:44.586 --> 00:43:51.260
I could watch and I have the girls loving them Like I could watch the old school, like Christmas movies forever.

00:43:51.280 --> 00:43:54.186
With the claymation, with the little I know, the.

00:43:54.407 --> 00:43:59.322
California raisins and, like I, freaking loved it.

00:43:59.603 --> 00:44:00.905
I know, I know that's.

00:44:00.905 --> 00:44:02.657
I think I told you that's one of our things.

00:44:02.657 --> 00:44:28.407
Like during the holidays or even truly just like a random weekend, we'll put on YouTube and like search like random shows that Nate and I I used to like when we were younger and we'll just sit there and watch them because it's just they just don't make stuff like that anymore and I just get like I'll sit and watch like old episodes of the tgi f lineup it came up at friendsgiving, we were talking about tjf, and then we ended up in the kitchen singing all the Savage Garden songs.

00:44:29.157 --> 00:44:30.467
God, what a time to be alive.

00:44:30.467 --> 00:44:32.159
What a time to be alive.

00:44:32.440 --> 00:44:33.817
I know I loved it, tjf.

00:44:33.817 --> 00:44:34.581
I lived for it.

00:44:34.581 --> 00:44:35.376
I was like God.

00:44:35.376 --> 00:44:44.762
That's probably why Back to the other episode Probably why you're such a sucker for Fridays, friday dinner, because that was like order pizza, hang out with our best friends.

00:44:44.762 --> 00:44:46.686
We had another family we were really close to.

00:44:46.686 --> 00:44:54.440
It's the family that the reason I went to Tokyo their dad moved there with Kodak to bring that book.

00:44:54.440 --> 00:44:55.123
That's cool.

00:44:55.123 --> 00:45:00.137
I would be with them every Friday and like because Kodak flew them back and forth.

00:45:00.137 --> 00:45:04.094
Part of the reason we were able to go is because we went on some of their frequent flyer miles.

00:45:04.094 --> 00:45:09.777
That's fun, right, and so we like spent like 10, 10 or 14 days there when I was in high school.

00:45:10.951 --> 00:45:11.875
That's on my list.

00:45:12.893 --> 00:45:15.777
It was so much fun, it was so beautiful and so clean.

00:45:17.590 --> 00:45:18.472
The land of my people.

00:45:18.472 --> 00:45:25.570
I mean, yeah, I know, I mean basically ramen.

00:45:25.710 --> 00:45:31.864
First of all, there's also a new ramen shop here that I need to go to, and I can't find anyone to go to it with me, so I know we got to go.

00:45:31.864 --> 00:45:33.510
Where is it?

00:45:33.510 --> 00:45:36.335
Um, it's God.

00:45:36.335 --> 00:45:40.824
I don't know the names of the roads, um, it's like the public's.

00:45:40.824 --> 00:45:44.873
It's further down, 17 kind of, by the other I'm at the.

00:45:44.913 --> 00:45:45.635
ML Pleasant.

00:45:45.775 --> 00:45:47.400
We can go there Perfect.

00:45:47.400 --> 00:45:50.418
Across from the place that sells canoes and outdoor stuff.

00:45:50.990 --> 00:45:51.594
We should go do that.

00:45:51.594 --> 00:45:52.317
I love ramen.

00:45:53.010 --> 00:45:54.295
Me too, and I'm so excited about it.

00:45:54.295 --> 00:45:55.639
I've heard really good things.

00:45:55.639 --> 00:45:57.992
My nail I had to get a new nail person.

00:45:57.992 --> 00:45:59.472
What happened to Andy?

00:45:59.472 --> 00:46:09.304
He moved back to Florida from his family for the hurricane, so I actually have no idea what happened, because that's literally the sentence that I was given.

00:46:10.085 --> 00:46:10.646
Oh no.

00:46:11.510 --> 00:46:16.742
Andy, what, I just saw him 10 days ago, but okay.

00:46:16.742 --> 00:46:25.686
So now I have Amy and her nails have been on for two and a half weeks and they still look beautiful, which is why I haven't switched to the red, because I'm like, okay, what's happening with Amy's nails?

00:46:25.686 --> 00:46:27.086
Are Amy's nails permanent?

00:46:27.086 --> 00:46:29.527
I loved you in the red.

00:46:29.527 --> 00:46:30.974
I know I'm going to go back.

00:46:30.974 --> 00:46:35.074
It's because I was going to Florida and I was like hoping to get really tan and have the white.

00:46:35.074 --> 00:46:35.795
But like.

00:46:35.795 --> 00:46:37.000
I'm dying to go back to that.

00:46:37.851 --> 00:46:46.119
I knew that in the summer I feel like I pull off the white in the summer, I feel like I pull off the white, yes, so I was like oh well, I'll just switch out real quick Halloween, all the things.

00:46:46.119 --> 00:46:48.889
I'll go white, keep it freshy and then go back to red.

00:46:48.889 --> 00:46:50.634
And now I'm dying for the red.

00:46:50.634 --> 00:46:51.858
But Amy did such a good job.

00:46:51.858 --> 00:46:52.940
I don't have a good reason.

00:46:53.061 --> 00:47:01.898
And also, I had color run, so I was like well, if Amy's nails are going to stay on, I'm going to let this ship sail for a hot second.

00:47:01.898 --> 00:47:05.081
Good point Color on destroys everything.

00:47:05.081 --> 00:47:14.742
Yeah, I don't know, but I just the old school movies, like with the little abominable snowman.

00:47:15.869 --> 00:47:18.199
Rudolph, Santa Claus is coming to town.

00:47:18.199 --> 00:47:21.438
I love like Ernest Saves Christmas.

00:47:21.438 --> 00:47:22.351
I loved.

00:47:22.391 --> 00:47:22.514
Ernest.

00:47:22.514 --> 00:47:23.465
I loved Ernest the Ernest Saves Christmas.

00:47:23.465 --> 00:47:23.768
I loved Ernest.

00:47:23.768 --> 00:47:26.025
I loved Ernest the Ernest.

00:47:26.025 --> 00:47:27.414
Movies Were so funny.

00:47:29.536 --> 00:47:30.398
Oh yeah, they were.

00:47:30.398 --> 00:47:31.300
They were so good.

00:47:31.300 --> 00:47:33.358
Ernest Goes to Camp that was one of my faves.

00:47:33.791 --> 00:47:38.768
My brothers actually Were the ones who, like, loved Ernest and I would totally like Just be into it for them, but it was like funny.

00:47:39.393 --> 00:47:40.460
It's so funny.

00:47:40.740 --> 00:47:42.351
I know it's ridiculous, yeah, we.

00:47:42.371 --> 00:47:42.652
I like funny.

00:47:42.652 --> 00:47:45.351
It's so funny I know it's ridiculous, we, we, I like we watch all the Christmas movies, I mean.

00:47:45.351 --> 00:47:59.893
So one of my like major go-tos I do this like every year is that, like there's there'll be one night where, like everybody goes to bed and I'll stay up by myself and I'll have a few glasses of wine and I'll watch Family Stone.

00:48:00.815 --> 00:48:03.340
Oh, I watch that by myself.

00:48:03.340 --> 00:48:04.422
It's my favorite.

00:48:04.862 --> 00:48:08.876
And I sit there and I cry because I'm like I should have had eight more children.

00:48:09.559 --> 00:48:12.130
No, you, I love Family Stone so much.

00:48:12.130 --> 00:48:14.677
The other one I also love is Love Actually.

00:48:14.677 --> 00:48:19.851
Oh, I know those are like really good Christmas movies.

00:48:20.393 --> 00:48:39.697
Me and Colin were actually just messaging each other back and forth about that one One of our friends at K-Squared Marketing, about what a douchebag Alan Rickman is for cheat on his wife with that little heart, the necklace and the whole thing and everyone hails it so gracefully and I'm just like incredible.

00:48:39.697 --> 00:48:42.731
Yeah, I love that.

00:48:42.731 --> 00:48:43.313
That's a good one.

00:48:43.313 --> 00:48:46.833
I do that one and we do krampus, we do krampus.

00:48:46.833 --> 00:48:52.510
There's like a scary christmas movie called krampus I don't know what no, you wouldn't.

00:48:52.831 --> 00:48:56.079
It's just like this big scary ass elf who like comes.

00:48:56.079 --> 00:49:06.400
It's scary but clark loves she loves it, so we watch that one I mean we watch all the christmas movies I love christmas movies you'll have to check out, have you been?

00:49:06.420 --> 00:49:06.780
watching hallmark.

00:49:06.780 --> 00:49:07.541
She loves it, so we watch that one.

00:49:07.541 --> 00:49:09.704
I mean we watch all the Christmas movies.

00:49:09.744 --> 00:49:10.385
I love Christmas movies.

00:49:10.385 --> 00:49:11.306
You'll have to check out Christmas.

00:49:11.306 --> 00:49:12.248
Have you been watching Hallmark?

00:49:12.248 --> 00:49:17.253
No, but I will be honest with you the only thing that I've been watching.

00:49:17.253 --> 00:49:23.255
I finished Love is Blind on my phone in my car during Carline, and then we finished Menendez Brothers, which I'm not watching, dude don't.

00:49:23.255 --> 00:49:24.018
It was intense.

00:49:24.710 --> 00:49:27.219
Am I correct about my suspicion about them?

00:49:28.371 --> 00:49:29.155
What is your suspicion?

00:49:30.010 --> 00:49:34.018
I'm just not quite sure that, like everything was their fault.

00:49:34.940 --> 00:49:41.775
Well, you, I don't know Cause I felt one way in the beginning of the show, middle of the show, and then completely different at the end.

00:49:41.775 --> 00:50:00.030
So I feel like there's some like oh, I don't know, like I don't know, yuck, but like we were talking about, you know, because they met women to marry, like via mail, because they had like pen pals, and one of them is still married to this girl.

00:50:00.030 --> 00:50:02.998
They got married in like 99 or something, I think.

00:50:02.998 --> 00:50:04.141
Isn't that crazy?

00:50:06.510 --> 00:50:07.978
I've seen a bunch of things about people.

00:50:07.978 --> 00:50:12.101
Actually, it's usually people who are like quitting Hinge to just date prisoners.

00:50:13.130 --> 00:50:14.436
I feel like we don't need to go there.

00:50:14.889 --> 00:50:16.096
No, I'm not going to go there.

00:50:16.096 --> 00:50:21.222
Okay, for some reason, my algorithm is probably because of you and like two other people.

00:50:21.222 --> 00:50:26.637
It's like actually you know what a pen pal, somebody who actually texts you back you might be into this.

00:50:26.637 --> 00:50:29.791
That's like what the joke is.

00:50:30.833 --> 00:50:37.416
I would kind of like that, because it's like low pressure until they like get out, and then they're going to have expectations.

00:50:37.838 --> 00:50:39.527
I think that they like actually fall in love.

00:50:39.527 --> 00:50:45.818
It's kind of like this idea that like men used to go to war and they used to write letters and you didn't know if they were going to come home, they used to like.

00:50:45.858 --> 00:50:47.431
I know, I think it's very romantic.

00:50:47.472 --> 00:50:48.172
I love a letter.

00:50:48.172 --> 00:50:49.715
I know Same.

00:50:49.715 --> 00:50:50.677
I'm really into it.

00:50:50.677 --> 00:50:52.701
I like any kind of written if it's in text.

00:50:53.081 --> 00:51:05.996
even if you say it, I guess probably but I feel like a letter takes effort Because I feel like everybody can send a text.

00:51:05.996 --> 00:51:07.139
Everybody can, I don't know.

00:51:07.139 --> 00:51:08.302
I love a letter.

00:51:08.550 --> 00:51:10.717
But how often do you get like a really sweet text?

00:51:10.717 --> 00:51:15.998
Like every once in a while I'll get like a really sweet text, even if it's from a friend and I'm like I don't know.

00:51:16.269 --> 00:51:17.672
Nate sends me some occasionally.

00:51:17.672 --> 00:51:20.173
Nate will like, write me a sweet note and put it in my agenda.

00:51:20.173 --> 00:51:21.054
So he knows, I see it.

00:51:21.896 --> 00:51:22.297
I love that.

00:51:22.297 --> 00:51:30.545
I don't think it has to be written, but as long as it's like something I can read and reread, I'm a rereader, are you?

00:51:30.545 --> 00:51:34.375
Yeah, oh yeah for sure.

00:51:34.436 --> 00:51:35.798
Um, maybe I am too.

00:51:35.798 --> 00:51:40.764
I don't know, I don't know.

00:51:40.764 --> 00:51:46.094
Now I will say I'm like that about like written things.

00:51:46.094 --> 00:51:48.621
Like if you wrote me a sweet card or something, I'm gonna keep it for.

00:51:48.621 --> 00:51:57.514
Like my dad wrote me, uh, like a post, like a card on a arrangement that he sent me one year, and I have it hanging right beside me like I'll never throw it away yeah, because it's just super sweet.

00:51:57.514 --> 00:52:01.661
But I'm super nostalgic about, like sentimental about things.

00:52:01.661 --> 00:52:03.344
We know this.

00:52:04.530 --> 00:52:05.394
No, I am too, though.

00:52:05.394 --> 00:52:08.559
That's why I think I like appreciate those things.

00:52:09.570 --> 00:52:12.838
But I love stationery and a card and like mail.

00:52:12.838 --> 00:52:15.083
That's not a bill in general.

00:52:16.251 --> 00:52:24.516
I think I love mail, but like I'm at the point maybe it's my lower expectations where I'm just like, if you can take three seconds to like really articulate yourself.

00:52:24.516 --> 00:52:26.960
So like some of you are not articulate at all.

00:52:26.960 --> 00:52:35.311
If I can tell that you meant what you said, for whatever reason, like if I don't care what you're writing it on, it could be on a napkin.

00:52:35.311 --> 00:52:40.331
I actually got a note on a napkin, I'm going to say the other day, but it wasn't super recently.

00:52:40.331 --> 00:52:51.489
Um, but it was like somebody saw my car at gymnastics a girl, another girl and then only had a napkin to write the note on and it's still here in my office.

00:52:51.489 --> 00:52:54.179
So she like wrote it, stuck it on my windshield wipers.

00:52:54.179 --> 00:53:00.329
Then I returned because I was actually out walking and then I was sitting in my car doing work and she like jumped in the passenger side.

00:53:00.329 --> 00:53:01.315
I was so excited to see her.

00:53:02.230 --> 00:53:03.831
Oh yeah, doing work, and she like jumped in the passenger side.

00:53:03.831 --> 00:53:03.621
I was so excited to see her.

00:53:03.621 --> 00:53:06.998
Oh yeah, I love a note, or just words that are sweet.

00:53:07.300 --> 00:53:25.911
That's what I mean like sometimes we'll get like a dm also, even it could be about the podcast, and I'm just like, oh my gosh, so many people are unwilling to take two minutes so I'm like you know what I call those, because I get them like a lot, like I'll get them like and I've done it to you.

00:53:26.291 --> 00:53:39.159
sometimes I get these things called mushy attacks that's what we call, that's what me and my mom call them and like I'll just like wake, it'll come out of nowhere and I'll text you and be like I just love you and I hope that you know that you're doing amazing.

00:53:39.159 --> 00:53:44.661
Yes, because I have a mushy attack like I get like this, this, yeah, and I love it.

00:53:44.661 --> 00:53:48.581
I'm just like, if God puts it on your heart in that moment, like I'm, like I got to say it.

00:53:49.090 --> 00:53:54.489
Oh, I got to let it out, especially like now, once I just in all the changes I'm like sometimes.

00:53:54.489 --> 00:54:06.152
I just got to tell my my I think I don't know if it's a forties thing too, cause I feel like a lot of my friends are going through this also, where they're like hey, like I feel very compelled to let you know I love it.

00:54:06.253 --> 00:54:12.639
I really do, because I think you think back to all the times like, just you get busy, you don't say it, you don't you know.

00:54:12.639 --> 00:54:14.351
It's just like, oh, I'll tell them later, or whatever.

00:54:14.351 --> 00:54:16.838
And then you have friends time is your currency.

00:54:16.838 --> 00:54:21.291
It is time is a currency, actually what you said earlier.

00:54:21.291 --> 00:54:23.396
Look at us bringing things full circle.

00:54:23.396 --> 00:54:24.519
We are so mature.

00:54:24.840 --> 00:54:26.876
Yes, guys, we're growing so much.

00:54:27.150 --> 00:54:28.617
I mean so much.

00:54:28.617 --> 00:54:35.096
We're so mature Taking that energy into charge, so mindful.

00:54:35.096 --> 00:54:39.960
So, hot mess, and here for it.

00:54:39.960 --> 00:54:47.123
Well, what a lovely, lovely little marketing advertising nostalgia journey.

00:54:48.452 --> 00:54:49.114
Like drop in.

00:54:49.114 --> 00:54:51.326
And if there's one this year, I actually want to know.

00:54:51.326 --> 00:54:53.936
I'd like to celebrate them If you find one.

00:54:53.936 --> 00:54:59.353
That's not like spend a zillion dollars for something your kid will only like once, um, please.

00:54:59.353 --> 00:55:02.157
And then I would also like to know any top toys.

00:55:02.157 --> 00:55:03.981
Just sent you that one.

00:55:03.981 --> 00:55:06.952
Uh, summer friday's lip gloss colors.

00:55:06.952 --> 00:55:09.137
Um, I don't even know.

00:55:09.137 --> 00:55:11.503
We were in sephora the other day and I was like what is?

00:55:11.503 --> 00:55:13.293
What are you even asking for?

00:55:13.293 --> 00:55:16.762
So now pilot has a 28 dollar lip gloss, courtesy of my mom.

00:55:16.762 --> 00:55:23.103
What the actual f in a and and a blush Both colors.

00:55:23.103 --> 00:55:23.724
She actually knew.

00:55:23.724 --> 00:55:25.215
She knew the brand name and the color.

00:55:25.215 --> 00:55:26.916
I was like I don't even know what we're saying here.

00:55:26.916 --> 00:55:32.322
We could be going to like a crazy aisle based on what she's saying.

00:55:32.322 --> 00:55:41.179
I have no idea where we're headed in this store, but she knew she has a liquid blush and a lip gloss.

00:55:41.760 --> 00:55:44.135
No, there's none of that in our house.

00:55:44.135 --> 00:55:48.021
Clark did try to put some purple eyeshadow on this morning, and she did it without my supervision.

00:55:48.021 --> 00:55:52.222
She came out and looked like she'd been socked in the eyes, so we had to reboot.

00:55:52.849 --> 00:55:54.034
Does she have hazel eyes, though?

00:55:54.034 --> 00:55:57.016
They're dark brown, so purple's the color though.

00:55:57.150 --> 00:55:58.998
Yeah, no, it looked beautiful.

00:55:58.998 --> 00:56:05.342
It would have stayed on the eyelid, but it was like Eyeshadow's tricky looked beautiful, it would have stayed on the eyelid, but it was like eyeshadow is tricky eyeshadow is tricky.

00:56:05.362 --> 00:56:06.063
Eyeshadow is really tricky.

00:56:06.063 --> 00:56:08.585
We're trying to learn, uh, mascara a little bit here.

00:56:08.585 --> 00:56:10.226
I'm just like, that's why I have lashes.

00:56:10.226 --> 00:56:16.460
You know, I like love mascara, even my kids and I'm like do you see me?

00:56:16.460 --> 00:56:17.824
Right now I'm layering.

00:56:17.824 --> 00:56:19.411
I can't break this right now.

00:56:19.411 --> 00:56:20.393
You gotta wait.

00:56:20.393 --> 00:56:27.635
Like, if you need, like, if you need me to brush your hair or wipe your butt or whatever it is, you got to wait until the process is over.

00:56:27.635 --> 00:56:31.179
Once it starts, now, we're all hostage.

00:56:31.179 --> 00:56:34.639
Even I'm a hostage.

00:56:39.130 --> 00:56:40.293
Well, happy Thanksgiving.

00:56:40.293 --> 00:56:45.922
Grateful for you, grateful for you and you guys, andateful for you, grateful for you, and you guys and sweet nothings.

00:56:45.922 --> 00:56:51.556
Yes, and next week it'll be December.

00:56:51.556 --> 00:56:52.960
Oh yeah, Ding, ding, ding.

00:56:52.960 --> 00:56:58.516
It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas.

00:56:58.516 --> 00:57:00.264
All right, guys.

00:57:00.264 --> 00:57:02.693
Thanks so much for tuning in and we will see you next week.