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What is up.
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We almost forgot to start recording.
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Well, I mean, we've been talking for like 20 minutes, have we what?
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time, is it?
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Oh yeah, we have we.
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So I mean in people like, obviously we're not scripting, we're literally catching up because it's been back to school and so we haven't had a second.
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But then we were like, oh my gosh, we've just got to start recording because you guys need to hear this.
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I know and I feel like those first few minutes of our stuff, when we have to like cut each other off because it's like we need to wait and talk about this on the podcast.
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But did you get the picture I just sent you?
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Yes, do you?
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You see why I didn't post it yet because, like his back was to me and they were sore, you got to preface it first.
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Okay, so this weekend it was holiday weekend, right, you spend some time yes, I went, did a little little night trip to dirty myrtle with some friends.
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I didn't know if you were going to say dirty Myrtle, so are we going to say it, we're doing the dirt.
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Yeah, but I mean that is not a derogatory comment, like that's just what people call it, and I love it.
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I haven't been vacationing there since I was probably Clark's age.
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That's where everyone in New York goes for spring break.
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A hundred percent, yeah, and I would go to Myrtle Beach to meet all the boys from New York.
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Oh my God, I love that.
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That is exactly what the boys are doing is going to find like a good Southern girl and there you are, and here we are, and here we are, so, yeah, so we one of my friends, hillary, which we've talked about she has a son who he's really into like nights and jousting I love this and so we were talking like two weeks ago it's such a boy thing and I said, have you taken him to medieval times in Myrtle beach?
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She was like no, and I'm like let's book it right now.
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So we did, we booked it, and so we just went up for the night and did medieval times, and so while I'm there you know, they have all these like different nights I have not done that, so I want you to.
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We were going to do this as a team building thing at Michael Kors, because we used to win money for different team building things and you know I'm a big fan of spending other people's money, so we were going to do this.
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No, I know it was.
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It was so like you would have loved it, I wouldn't.
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This is the stuff where I get out of people, don't I get.
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I am so out of pocket.
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In a situation like this, I cannot get a grip on myself.
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Becca, I was like horse, I yelled so much.
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True story.
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So they get what they see with you and I.
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They sit you in like sections right so you have like different colors and every color cheers for their night.
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Right, I love it.
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We have a knight in shining armor.
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Yes, so we had the white knight, right, oh my God.
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So we have like flags, and of course we had to buy a sword, because I mean, why not Right, when in Rome, right?
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And so you like, cheer for your knight and you get so into it.
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I would be.
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First of all, you know, I'm definitely like changing my hinge radius to one mile.
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I am I'm in situations like that because you can change your radius.
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So, like I was joking, I went to a baseball game a Riverdogs game.
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I've never been the other day and I was joking with my friend Sandra and I was like we should change my hinge to one mile and see if any of the players pop up.
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I love this idea hinge to one mile and see if any of the players pop up.
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I love this idea.
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I didn't do it then because I didn't have that's the.
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That right, there is the energy that I need.
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Didn't work out that night and it wasn't good timing for it, but like that's the kind of mischief I want to get into, I would have changed it to this white night, one mile radius.
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You should have Cause, I'm telling you, though.
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So there was this one night he was the green night and he had this like long flowing, like kind of auburn hair.
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You love green anyways.
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I do love green.
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So like his thighs were huge and so I was like, and he was really tall and I was like, are they wearing like shorts or are they wearing like tights?
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No, they're dressed in like night pants.
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I don't really know what that is.
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It's like night pants with like boots, but anyway zoom in on them.
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Why do people wear like?
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stockings no, they're not really stockings, but anyway.
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So he had his hair like in a low kind of like bun and he was sword fighting and I was, like you know he looks like Becca's type and so I tried snapping a pic for you, but it's hard to snap really good pictures when somebody's sword fighting.
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Just so you know.
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And that folks is.
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Whatever that drum thing is.
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That's the moment.
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It is hard to snap a great photo when somebody is sword fighting.
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I mean his thighs were right up your alley.
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I was just going to say something about the sweet meat, like if you have a quad the size of Texas.
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I do not understand what it is, but it's innate, it's in my heart.
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So that's your definition of sweet meat?
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No, seriously, I thought sweet meat was like your back rolls.
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Oh, I always say sweet.
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I started saying it when the girls were young because they had the big thigh chub and I would call that the sweet meat.
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I love a baby thigh chub.
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I love something about that little like glass roll.
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I'm just like that's the sweet meat.
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And so now as an adult I'm like that actually might be the sweet meat.
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Okay, so you're going quad, it's your sweet meat, okay yeah because a Batgirl doesn't sound very like delicious.
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I mean, mine are Okay, you don't even have.
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Batgirls, stop.
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But I have something about a quad, and I don't mean like you know, I mean like one that you've put some time into.
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I can't stand when a guy only does like shoulders and back and they walk around with these little chicken legs, with calves.
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I'm like God bless America, let's now has this always been your tie.
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Like a big boy.
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Yeah, Like yeah.
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You also can't get sweet meat if you are small.
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I just love a big boy.
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Yes, okay, like big, like six, six, one juicy, I don't want to see abs.
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I don't want you to get carried away on a big shoulder, huge back, just sweet meat quad.
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I don't want to see abs.
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I don't want you to get carried away on a big shoulder, huge back, just sweet meat quad.
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I don't need to see like I'm totally okay.
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You know, like when football players are in their uniform and sometimes they're like the role around the middle, I love it.
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You're here for that.
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I fucking love it.
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Okay, am?
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No, I think that.
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I mean, I feel like I love that you're writing it down.
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What is that?
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What are you writing?
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where do you think we're getting titles from?
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I have to write down some of these giant shoulders huge quads belly roll.
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It's tall.
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I just love the sweet me.
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I love the juice.
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That's like a Lizzo song.
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That's a good one.
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I love the juice.
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I feel like my type has always been like.
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I'm always have liked shorter, which is funny because I'm taller.
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I married originally my first marriage.
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I married somebody which, by the way, that's how we're labeling it.
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I thought this would be more fun than I have an ex-husband.
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So bear with me here, but we are relabeling this.
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That was my first marriage, okay, and that was my first husband.
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So I'm actually not big, what he was big, big, what he was big, yeah, but not like super tall.
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So I got like kind of there and even like my high school boyfriend was kind of like in the same category, like that tends to be a lot of sports.
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I really am very geared, I don't know.
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I just think they have like this mindset of I don't know like I don't want to talk you into like taking care of yourself.
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I feel like you and I put a lot of work in.
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I want to get that halfway yeah, I feel like I've always gravitated towards funny, and I think that all of the funny ones have just been exceptionally short.
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No, no, no, and I do.
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I think that's pretty true, but I actually thought you're going to say I think the funny ones also were athletic, because I do think there's a tie there, do you think?
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Yes, absolutely.
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So I think those are are pretty serious.
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I don't find very serious people.
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You lean towards like football players and I lean more towards like baseball players and like clearly like a cage fighter, because I married one yes, okay, so I will agree with you there.
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Like I, this has not happened yet.
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So if you want to manifest out of it rugby, somehow, I'm being targeted that juice, like that's the sauce for me.
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Yeah, something, somebody in my gram has gotten this in my little arena the shorts won't even go down, like you know, when the shorts get kind of stuck in the middle that's.
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I love listen.
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My husband has the best legs and I love some legs.
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Love some legs Takes work.
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It takes work.
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Pot pies Getting me all steamy this morning Whole pizzas.
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I know it's not going to help me at all.
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No, we should post some of the rugby ones, because I see them and I'm just like why are we not talking about this more?
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Do we have a rugby team here?
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no, I don't think so well, I'm gonna.
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That's gonna be my next business adventure my girlfriend, her son, um, plays college for um upstate usc, upstate like in spartanburg, and she posted a picture of him yesterday and you could see his leg muscles and and so I comment I'm like, oh my gosh, his legs, they're like Carrie Underwood status and like she left me on open and I'm like, oh my God, was that creepy.
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I was just thinking I'm like, did we get in trouble?
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Like I'm like what did I do?
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Like it was a compliment, it wasn't like in a weird way.
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I know how you meant it, but it's's.
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You're like but some, how does that?
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Why?
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What are they doing?
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I don't know, cause I feel like I mean I just get cherry picked because they already have that kind of quad status.
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I don't know, but like I need it in my life.
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I'm so excited for football to come back, though, because I I will tell you right now, the ones that have the little roll, like Josh Allen, came back this season like 30 pounds lighter, and I'm like you know I love him, but like was that really necessary?
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Was it really necessary?
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Was it.
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Was it.
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Who said to do that?
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Speaking of football, we're like in the ur months, speaking of which we both have like hoodies on, like all cozy.
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This is my new, like I'm, this was like a cheap Amazon one and it's been my um after yoga, cause I basically have to go to yoga naked.
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Is that the one that we have together?
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The same one?
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No, this has to be a zip because it has to be in yoga.
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Oh, have you farted yet.
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Oh, thank God.
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But I thought I was actually like do you understand how much fear you've built in?
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Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.
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Well, maybe it's a good thing, because I like keep you on, keep you on your toes.
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Like there's a part of me that just wishes I would, so I could get it over with.
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So my gym, like two weeks ago they had like.
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They were like oh, we're having a yoga workshop.
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Are you going to come?
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I'm like that's a hard pass for me Not happening.
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I can't, like I will leave the class.
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It is your best workout though, can I tell you.
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So she there's this girl.
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I should share her name.
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So I go to yoga at Core Power Yoga, and I swear to God, if one of you guys turns into a stalker, I'm going to be pissed because I really like to celebrate small business and it's going to annoy me to no end.
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There is a person there named Hope and she does a C2, like a core power yoga that I'm obsessed with, and part of it is her Like.
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She starts off and she brings like some spirituality into it, which I'm into.
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She pushes you so far, but she like talks to you.
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You know how I like to be talked to all the way through it.
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So today she was like we're going to start with a quote, and it was a Nelson Mandela quote and the quote was I hope that you choose what basically validates your hopes, not your fears, I know.
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And then she, and she also does this other thing and I don't know why, but she says the day of the week multiple times and it must be some kind of like centering thing.
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But she'll be like I really want you to stretch into that I could.
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I could really use that this week, because I have thought I've been a day behind all week.
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It's the amount of sweat I have never shown up Remember we had this conversation about camel toe and showing up to the gym naked?
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I have never in my life.
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This is why I needed a zip up hoodie.
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I was so scared.
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But by week three I was like we just have to go naked.
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I don't know how to do this.
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So I wear my leggings and my sports bra and I'm there with everyone else who's doing the same thing and sweat is pouring.
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Is it hot yoga or just regular?
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No, it's hot.
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Oof.
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Okay, it's hot yoga, so the room is 95 when you walk in, which probably means like 118 when you leave.
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The sweat in my eyes and coming through my mouth was like it's crazy.
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I feel like I've been baptized.
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Every time I leave there.
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I love that, but I feel like that's like your body like getting all the bad stuff and, to be quite honest, I could probably need to do a round of that with you.
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You can come with me.
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It's literally, I feel for me it's really important that I work out hard enough that I like don't have any like I need to be grounded.
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I know you're the same Like I get a little like high out there, yeah, and be like set back down, but that doesn't mean people mistake that for like oh, you should talk to me like oh, you know, like firmly or right, it's patronizing.
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Yeah, I need it physically like that and every time delivers.
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There's this other class on Fridays.
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That's like a sculpt, which is probably what you should do, because that instructor's amazing.
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Her music is super high energy, but there's some weights in it, so I know you should do it.
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I want to come with you.
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Seriously, that one you would like more.
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I think we should try both, but like is the music loud to?
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filter out any for you Okay.
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No, her class.
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She's yelling, it's like, but you stay on your mat and it's like circuits and it's.
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I mean she remembers your name.
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So, like she called out my name the first class, she was like Rebecca, I can see you, we are not giving up.
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And I like wasn't, but I she just knew that I wanted to write that.
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I was like, okay, I guess we're not God, I love that.
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I know I love it there.
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I don't know what Sandra made me do it, but I haven't been to a yoga class in 10 years and it has been so healing.
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I'm going to serious.
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I'm going to join you because I need to get in my sports bra.
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I'm going to be honest with you.
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I had this epiphany today.
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Do you know that when you, this is going to seem twisted?
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Well, I would expect nothing less this is going to seem twisted.
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Well, I would expect nothing less.
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I read this thing years ago about eating disorders and specifically this was about people who were overweight and, like really scared of their body.
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But it applied to both, where one of the things that you do in therapy is you have to put lotion on your body.
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To put lotion on your body, hear me out, but it's because they're so stressed out by their body that they have become so separated from it that this like simple action of like taking care of themselves and even touching their own skin is like actually kind of very scary for them.
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Huh, which makesa lot of sense.
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It does make sense and, and I was like this is so interesting.
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So in that moment I was like, well, I want to make sure that I'm really careful and gentle with my own self, and I had this epiphany today because I wore a sports bra that's almost completely backless and it was a huge, freaking risk.
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My friend Marcelina found it.
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I was like this is gonna go one or two ways, but it cuts up pretty high in the front of the armpit and it cuts up high across here.
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So I was like, well, I mean, it's just back right, I know, but like I'm just afraid that one of the inmates is going to escape the asylum.
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More than anything, I'm afraid, like a party tit is going to come out in the middle of yoga.
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Are you like jumping?
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No, but I have huge boobs.
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Well, I mean, listen, sister, I know and you know how they are, you're in great company.
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They've got a mind of their own.
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I know that's what I mean, like I'm afraid that a party is going to come out and be like hey, we're back here.
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Anyways, it went great.
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But I was like this is a giant risk.
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I have never shown up in a room full of people it's always packed full of people in leggings and a backless sports bra, but it was very um, what's the right word I don't want to say free.
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It was very validating, it was good for me.
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I think that's great.