Feb. 29, 2024

Galas, Hitchhiking, & Cage Fighting

Galas, Hitchhiking, & Cage Fighting
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Season 1

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Imagine stepping into a gala ablaze with the unexpected thrill of tambourines and the candid confessions of a fashion crisis. That's exactly where Jenny and Raebecca take you as they have a little car time on the way to a local oyster roast and chat about some personal details along the way. 

Just because they are business partners doesn’t mean they know everything about one another, and in fact before this podcast started, they were friendly, but not friends. Hard to believe, and sort of like one of those dating reality shows - where they get married and then they get the opportunity to learn about each other. Come along as they talk hitchhiking, TV shows, traveling, and cage fights.

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Hosted by @raebecca.miller and @jennyfromthe843

00:04 - MMA Fights and Unhinged Galas

12:54 - Friendship and Candid Conversations

24:25 - Love Is Blind

37:38 - Brainstorming Future Podcast Topics

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Episode 7.

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What, what we, um, we were just together.

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This is funny.

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This happens a lot.

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We had an event to go to last night.

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We did.

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And it was.

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I don't hold on.

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I feel like I maybe missed.

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Let us a little bit here.

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It wasn't an event, it wasn't like a gala, though we actually went to an oyster roast.

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I don't think you and I would ever be gala type people.

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You know, I want to, I want to do, Do you?

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Oh, yes, I would like us to get a table at seaweed next year.

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Oh, I'm here for that.

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Yeah, you can do.

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They do like a thing on Friday as you can buy, that I'm like have this obsession with buying the table and like inviting people that we would have like a really good time with, like at a fight.

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It's like remember I told you yeah, the next time my friend Amy fights, we're buying a table.

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Okay.

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There's this seaweed gala.

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I think we should get a table next year.

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Okay, I'm here for it.

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Like I guess I just have this like image of like ball gowns and like uncomfortable sheaths and fancy and I just don't feel like that's us.

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Oh, I think it would be really fun.

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The last gala that I went to was for a hospital in New York and it had a cruise ship theme Like carnival.

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I love it.

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The man gave me a tambourine.

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There is a photo.

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If you think that Rebecca on a margarita, or just add an oyster or whatever is a good, give her a tambourine and let her be just a few in unhinged and not like in an obnoxious way, like in.

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I clearly was having the time of my life and everyone around me was also having a great time.

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Well, I mean, how could you not have fun with a tambourine?

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I mean, I don't even think I would need cocktails, and that's just like a fun instrument.

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What, yes, the last gala that I went to it was an awards dinner party for an organization that I was a member of a few years ago.

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So, um, one of this might actually shock you.

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I think this is this is going to be another like little treasure that you're finding out about me that you wouldn't know, so I am someone who does not try on clothing until, like, I'm walking out the door.

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So I had ordered like three dresses for this gala from rent the runway and I just like didn't try them on.

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Like you had just done enough legwork to get them into your house that you were like, surely one of these is going to be a winner.

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Well, I'm just like you know, it'll be fine, like.

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So I just don't really like stress about it, so like I don't end zip these dresses.

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And I think I had had I think my daughter was like two so I was still carrying, you know.

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I call it baby way.

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I never run to the runway.

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I also want to unpack that.

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Oh it's.

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yeah, they have a lot of good stuff, okay, um, but anyway for this guy.

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So, like these dresses, I had three, rebecca.

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Only one of them was on the verge of fitting and my husband, like we were sweating, trying to get this zipper up.

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No, it was like I was like you know, I had a complete meltdown.

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I was like no, I'm not going.

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You know how we get like women.

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Like I don't know if you're like that, I'm just like no, I'm not going, I feel disgusting.

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I'm, you know, just had a complete fashion meltdown and my husband's like for the love of God, why do you wait until we've got to be there in 30 minutes to try this dress off?

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Why do you do this?

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So this is like a thing for me.

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I don't try on clothes, I buy them and I just return them or ship them back, like I just I don't do it.

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Okay, like I don't go like in a dressing room and try and close, although I actually had to for the Christmas party for my neighborhood.

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Oh yeah, I remember that you posted some pictures.

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Well, because I got well, I sent one to you directly because I mean, that's one.

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Oh yeah, you did get stuck, that's right 100%.

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I got lodged like right across my chest.

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I was like we are absolutely this.

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That was me in the gala dress.

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I'm telling you, I got in it.

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It was not pretty.

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It was not pretty.

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I mean, I looked nice, but I could not breathe the entire evening.

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I don't even know how you sat in the car, because usually in dresses like that you have to sit like a little bit like well, it was like flowy, but that zipper man she was hanging on for her dear life, I mean, no, it was.

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I felt like a busted can of biscuits in that dress.

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So I would really like to vision board a gala event in the next year.

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Nothing wild, but something where we're dressed up together and we get to be our unhinged selves also at the same time.

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And then also a fight.

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I want to rent the table at a fight.

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See, like that sounds more like us, like a little scrappy a little.

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You know, I met my husband at a fight.

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Did you know this?

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Okay, can we?

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I?

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Only I.

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The outfit is my favorite part of this story, but this because I yeah in my mind, when we go, it's going to look like a lot of like black and lace and like bites.

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Typically, these are like multi-fights or MMA fights.

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In there, you usually get like a little bit of a Vegas feel.

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Oh, for sure.

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Oh yeah, please tell us what you wore to your first.

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And you know it's I will, and it's very fitting because our 14 year anniversary is in three days.

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I love it.

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Yeah, I know everybody thinks I'm obsessed with my husband.

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Listen, I love him, but you know we get on each other's nerves just like any other couple, but so yeah.

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So my husband back in the day was an MMA fighter, like on the side.

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He's an engineer by trade, but he did this like as a hobby.

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So I had a girlfriend that I was working with at the time and she said, hey, I've got a girlfriend, hey, I've got this ticket to this MMA fight.

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And I was like what in the heck is that?

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Like it was like 2010.

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Like I didn't know anything about it.

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I was not an MMA follower.

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I think it was like fresh on the scene.

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I don't know.

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Yeah, about that time is when I was going to like there was a really great sports bar by my work and so like I would make myself close on Saturdays so I could go to the UFC fight after.

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Okay, yeah, see I, there was none of that for me.

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I was like what kind of dubby, like white trash thing is this?

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Like I am not going?

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And she was like Just go with me, I have an extra ticket, oh, all right, whatever.

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So it was a Thursday night and I'm like you know I'm getting ready because of course I've waited till the last minute.

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I'm like what does one even wear to this thing?

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I mean it was like February was freezing and it was a Thursday.

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It was the Thursday, it was like a work night.

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So I mean it wasn't like you know, we were going out afterward Anyway.

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So I put on I put on like this winter white turtleneck sweater, which is a great look for me.

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I love a sweater and I really love a turtleneck.

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No, I love a turtleneck.

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We share this.

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I love a turtleneck.

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I just think they're hot.

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Well, it was freezing, so it was fun.

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No, no, I mean like sexy.

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Oh yeah, I feel like people either love a turtleneck or they hate a turtleneck.

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No, I think there's something about like it that's like hot.

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But I think so too.

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The winter white virginal.

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Oh, I looked so virginal.

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I really did, because of course I was right, absolutely, you, star.

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Yeah, I just have a kid, so yeah.

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So I went to this fight and we got there and I was like, okay, this is a definitely different vibe than I had anticipated, didn't really?

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It was just weird, I wish I was with you.

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But so hot, like the guys fighting were hot, and I was like this is amazing.

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Who knew that this was like a thing?

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And then my husband was there to see one of his friends fight, so he was not actually fighting.

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So my girlfriend that I was with, she said, hey, like this is my friend Nate, and we knocked knuckles, he asked me for a piece of gum and that was that.

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Here we are, 14 years later.

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Was the gum.

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Let's just really quick, because if you don't follow our marketing Instagram, you probably have seen this.

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But it was a moment, but it was before probably one of the biggest presentations we've ever done, and I needed a piece of gum and I was in, oh my gosh.

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She pulled out a Ziploc bag with like three pieces in it and I took a picture.

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I'll actually post it to this.

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This is some grandma church gum and, to be like full disclosure, I have friends that know me really well that were like I am shook that you ate it, because I have Major food trauma issues that I'm still unpacking, and like the fact that I dirty floating around the bottom.

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No, it's not.

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I know that and that's why I had to tell my brain that I could eat it.

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But there is nothing about me and my like.

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Food issues that normally under any other circumstance if it had been anyone else.

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Well, I really can say that a compliment, I really do.

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You should, I do.

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You're like my.

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You're my like safety person, but I like I had to make myself.

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So let me tell the story behind the gun, because I feel like, no, it is your friend yourself.

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Yeah, no, it is your question.

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No, I handed Nate a piece of gum from a pack of gum because back in the day it was more affordable.

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Gum is hella expensive and if you buy it in the like jar, like I like to put in my cup holder, it's like six bucks.

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But if you buy the big bag of it at Target, it's like four bucks.

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So I just buy the big bag and then I throw it in the same which bag and I feel like I didn't know that that's what was happening.

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It's basically responsible.

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That's what I'm doing.

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it for no, I so I've never even thought about that.

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I didn't know how it got in the bag.

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I didn't have time to ask you.

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I had time to take the picture and tell myself to just shut the hell up and eat the gum Gosh, because I just there are so many other like stressors in that moment to yes we, rebecca, we cannot unpack your food.

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But I don't know if Nate would have liked me if I pulled a sandwich bag full of gum.

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He might have thought that that was a weird day.

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You pulled it out of your purse and there was something about it.

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It was very like I just I wanted butterscotch and cinnamon candies to be in there.

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Oh no, I feel like my candy is like those like strawberry candies.

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You know, I'm talking about yes, with like the soft savers.

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Oh, like they're in there, like it looks like a strawberry with the jelly.

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Yes, you can get them at the Dollar Tree.

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I don't eat candy.

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I don't either, but I'm just telling you.

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I saw my Dollar Tree and it gave me a major vibe, a grandma vibe.

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I love those.

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I mean I probably would try one right now, just to, just to reminisce.

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Yeah, nostalgia.

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I definitely feel that that's like a nostalgic, like candy Absolutely, I love it.

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No, I don't eat much sugar or candy at all.

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But okay, so you're in this turtleneck.

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You meet the love of your life.

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Yeah.

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He tells you he's a fighter, you're already thinking this is hot.

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I did think it was hot and well, and so it started out like I went to two.

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Then I actually saw him fight, as we were kind of like getting to know each other.

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How did you handle that?

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Oh, so I didn't really care, because at that point we were not dating, we were just friends.

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Friends, yes.

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So I thought it was like super sexy, right.

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I would have a hard time watch.

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That's the one of the reasons I have not watched my friend fight.

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Just wait, okay.

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So I watched him fight in that kind of capacity like three times I think it was three times, wow, and it was super hot, gosh, like you know.

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They're rolling around and they're, you know, just sweaty and just it's hot, right, and then even what's more hot or hotter, whatever the grammatical is that like the discipline that he had to, like he was super regimented about his diet, like his water intake, like cutting weight and like exercising.

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So I found like his level of like commitment and discipline to it Super sexy.

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Um, well, then we started, like then I fell in love with the kid and then then I went to one of his fights, had like a cute, like custom shirt made like of course, of course I did and I paid my pants.

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It was awful, like when I say I paid my pants, this is like pre kid.

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So like I didn't really have an excuse, I was a ball of stress, like I was stressed the whole time he was fighting.

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Then he finally won and then I like jumped up and down and screamed and feed my pants because I was so excited for him.

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You actually peed your pants.

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No, I really did.

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Yeah, oh my God.

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Yeah, All right, I mean it was a little, but I mean it was like I was that excited.

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I was so excited that he won and I was so excited that he did not get hurt and I was so excited it was over because there's so much like heart and fighting.

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So my friend Amy, that is a fighter.

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We've known each other for like 10 years.

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We met at Michael course.

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She walked in my front door and she needed a job and then randomly she joined this gym.

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Like in the same sort of breath, right, she walks in there and high heels and a dress and she's like I think I want to work out here and now she's this amazing fighter, but that's so badass, that's so badass.

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Yes, and she is so disciplined.

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When she's disciplined, like, I'll get a million when, when, when, when she, when she has her head in the Sand for it, we communicate a lot during that time period.

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I'll get tons of pictures of like food, or her in the shower or steaming out, or her on the run or whatever it is.

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You know, you can tell that people really have to like lean into their circle when they're in those moments and I like live, for I have so much heart for it.

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And then it's like, okay, is it a win, is it a loss?

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Like either way, it's a win because it's like the bravest thing ever.

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Yeah.

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But I've never seen her do it in person because of this huge fear of like.

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Like I love her right as I love her.

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She's friends that I love and so like You're gonna have to come with me.

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Yeah, it's stressful.

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I'm gonna be honest with you.

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It's really it's really stressful, but I watch it on TV and I get really stressed.

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Yeah, but I mean they're, they're super fun.

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So I would definitely say like that's probably more my speed than like a full blown out like gala with like a Ball gown that I'm gonna wait until 30 minutes before to try on and With like the hair makeup, like fun.

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Oh, I love all of that.

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Like I love getting my hair and makeup done.

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It's like my jam, like I loved doing that.

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But I Wish I could just like do that and then just like put on sweatpants Because I hate getting dressed up.

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Maybe we'll host the gala and it'll be like that.

00:15:35.649 --> 00:15:35.708
Oh.

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My god, I bet we would have.

00:15:37.514 --> 00:15:40.282
We would sell the thing out, I thought we would.

00:15:40.282 --> 00:15:43.339
We could like rent an auditorium.

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Everybody has to come in like makeup and hair, because that's fun.

00:15:47.750 --> 00:15:54.711
And then we'll like get a big jumbo tron and watch love is bond and serve one and eat Ben and Jerry's right out of the Carton.

00:15:55.393 --> 00:15:57.418
I am definitely into the love it, so okay.

00:15:57.418 --> 00:16:16.902
So we're, we go to this event last night, we're in the car and and we do this, we for you guys, for us we will hit pause in the middle of a conversation and be like, no, we're not going a step further, we're gonna save it until we're on the podcast because we like it.

00:16:16.902 --> 00:16:22.043
It's so much better if you can just Be there when it's happening.

00:16:22.043 --> 00:16:25.235
Yeah, and we can't like redo reactions.

00:16:25.235 --> 00:16:26.398
Yeah, you can't.

00:16:26.398 --> 00:16:46.409
And we started to unpack a couple of our like weird things because we're together and we're in the car and we're going to this event and and what I think it helps you that we're not like We've known each other for how many years For four but we're we weren't really friends.

00:16:47.653 --> 00:16:48.034
So what?

00:16:48.034 --> 00:16:53.110
Like we've ever had moments where it's just like, oh, like we sit down like we know everything about each other.

00:16:53.110 --> 00:16:59.017
So every time we're together we find even when we just talk on the phone, we find out all these new things about each other.

00:16:59.076 --> 00:17:18.410
So it's like, oh, Well, in a non-friend way, because obviously we're friends now, but like we are Extremely unfiltered together yeah, thank you, because we own a business together, yeah, and so like we don't have time to like this.

00:17:18.410 --> 00:17:25.644
It's like getting married and then figuring out who you married, like it's too late now, so you might as well just like whatever the band aid is like.

00:17:25.644 --> 00:17:34.414
If you're never gonna unpack your suitcase, you should definitely tell me Something that came up yesterday that Jenny had to pause.

00:17:34.414 --> 00:17:40.099
I I've never ridden in an Uber like y'all.

00:17:40.160 --> 00:17:48.171
She's never like ridden in an Uber in 2024 Ever.

00:17:48.171 --> 00:17:49.978
This is blowing my mind.

00:17:51.222 --> 00:18:09.282
I, and so what I started to say was, like we I used to have to go into New York for Work and I would get car service, because like that in the day it was car service, like I had a company that I would get car service from, but it felt a little bit more like formal Uber to me.

00:18:09.282 --> 00:18:13.940
Definitely feels like you're getting in, you're gonna score if I'd hitchhiking.

00:18:14.730 --> 00:18:20.829
Okay that, so that's how I'd for sure Like I'm not disagreeing with you there and I've thought about it numerous times.

00:18:20.829 --> 00:18:24.448
But I also say the same thing about valet or if I'd hitchhiking.

00:18:24.448 --> 00:18:35.112
Thank you, that way is like me giving my keys to a very expensive car, I and it's like oh here, I trust you, I've never met you before, but here's my car.

00:18:35.112 --> 00:18:37.623
Like that's weird.

00:18:37.623 --> 00:18:40.651
I don't know, but the fact that you have not taken Uber blows my mind.

00:18:43.157 --> 00:18:46.130
I Then you told me that there's something called uber black.

00:18:46.941 --> 00:18:57.615
Yes, so when if I go like, if I travel alone for like work in the past and I'm by myself and I'm, you know, big city, whatever, like you better believe I'm taking like a uber black.

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It's some more expensive one, but I have found if I take the cheap route, which normally I would do, I fear for my life because if they're driving one to their car has like trash and car seats and cigarette smoke and so yeah, I just pay the extra.

00:19:19.585 --> 00:19:21.391
Yeah, you don't have.

00:19:21.451 --> 00:19:23.096
How do you earn the black status?

00:19:23.096 --> 00:19:24.480
You have to have like either.

00:19:24.621 --> 00:19:36.005
I think it's like a I mean, I don't know, I don't think your car has to be black, but I think you have to have like a nicer, like bigger SUV or like a Lincoln Navigator, like a what are the link, you know?

00:19:36.005 --> 00:19:38.803
Like a Lincoln kind of car, town car.

00:19:38.803 --> 00:19:40.087
There we go, um.

00:19:40.087 --> 00:19:42.185
So yeah, I think that that.

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I just thought I feel if I was a mate, if I'm with like other people, like if it were you and I, actually if it were you and I'd probably still take black.

00:19:50.180 --> 00:19:56.101
But yeah, if I'm with other people I don't feel as sketched, but if I'm by myself, I absolutely do that, yeah.

00:19:56.281 --> 00:19:59.469
I don't even like the idea of you doing it by yourself, like I would just rather walk.

00:20:00.050 --> 00:20:01.782
Oh well, gina, so last time.

00:20:01.782 --> 00:20:04.844
So I kind of live further out from town.

00:20:04.844 --> 00:20:07.124
This is actually one of the stories.

00:20:07.124 --> 00:20:09.510
I paused on the other day and I was like I can't tell you this yet.

00:20:09.510 --> 00:20:23.423
So I went out with my girlfriends and I live about 45 minutes from downtown and I Usually have my husband take me somewhere and then I Uber home because you know I don't want him to have to come back Because it was like late.

00:20:23.423 --> 00:20:26.939
So I stayed out with the girls, we went dancing, had a great time.

00:20:26.939 --> 00:20:31.403
I got a new bird, so he took me.

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I guess they it doesn't tell them where they're taking you until you like get in the car.

00:20:36.121 --> 00:20:37.805
So I get in the car with this guy.

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It's like one o'clock in the morning.

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We've been dancing, like, been drinking like whatever, and he was like Holy shit, I'm not driving you all the way out there.

00:20:47.319 --> 00:20:56.750
Like he was fussing at me, like we were going across the bridge, like fussing at me like the whole time, like this is 20 minutes Into the ride and I'm like super uncomfortable, like I'm texting my husband.

00:20:56.750 --> 00:20:57.551
I'm like, oh my god.

00:20:57.551 --> 00:20:59.769
So I'm like why don't you just let me out?

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I'm like just let me out, stop at this grocery store.

00:21:02.539 --> 00:21:04.267
I'll have my husband come get me.

00:21:04.267 --> 00:21:09.624
The guy lets me out of the car.

00:21:09.624 --> 00:21:12.364
I'm at hair seater, the one window.

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It's two o'clock in the morning and I had to call my husband and my baby to come get me.

00:21:18.396 --> 00:21:19.400
It to walk on.

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I was terrified.

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It was freezing cold.

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It was January.

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I've been out for a birthday or something, but yeah, yeah, he left me there.

00:21:27.361 --> 00:21:34.506
And so ever since then I've been super, so I don't do the late night thing like by myself thing anymore, like I just I don't do it.

00:21:35.067 --> 00:21:38.275
I, you, basically just I'm, now, I'm never getting into.

00:21:38.275 --> 00:21:39.617
That's exactly my fear.

00:21:43.990 --> 00:21:59.263
Oh my god, there's just no way and I'm fairly sharp and have my wits about me, but you know, all I could think was like you know what, if that was like you know a drunk college kid or somebody who you know, not in a good headspace, I don't know?

00:21:59.263 --> 00:22:01.461
Like just yeah.

00:22:01.461 --> 00:22:02.203
I don't it all.

00:22:02.785 --> 00:22:08.359
Yeah, I have a couple friends who have like kids who will gladly drive for like cash.

00:22:08.359 --> 00:22:17.346
Yeah, so that's like my current back, like I would rather call my babysitter and say hey, I don't need a babysitter tonight, but I need two rides.

00:22:17.346 --> 00:22:21.088
I'll give you a hundred bucks or something like I don't know how much it costs to.

00:22:21.190 --> 00:22:21.332
Uber.

00:22:21.352 --> 00:22:26.611
Yeah, I don't think it's cheap, I'd rather have her set two alarms because she doesn't drink and she'll do it.

00:22:26.611 --> 00:22:33.643
Then there's just I don't think it's for me, I so I Tell you on it.

00:22:33.663 --> 00:22:37.564
I'm not gonna sell you on it because I have mixed feelings about it, but I just can't believe you haven't been in one.

00:22:38.467 --> 00:22:39.028
No but that.

00:22:39.028 --> 00:22:40.672
So this is one of the unpacking things.

00:22:40.672 --> 00:22:47.222
So I grew up in a small town in New York on Lake Ontario.

00:22:47.222 --> 00:22:56.146
Basically it's a I'm gonna call it like a farm town, like the thing that we're like known for is the apples right, Like that's so funny.

00:22:56.347 --> 00:22:57.550
I didn't know that about you are.

00:22:58.320 --> 00:22:58.520
The.

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I have friends who are like farmers like that is what they do and they're very successful.

00:23:02.811 --> 00:23:07.530
Like my brothers will go and help on the farm still if they need a hand.

00:23:07.530 --> 00:23:10.429
So I have two younger brothers.

00:23:10.429 --> 00:23:14.741
I'm first born and they're Really baby.

00:23:14.741 --> 00:23:20.131
No, I'm a firstborn Fun fact see.

00:23:20.131 --> 00:23:24.369
Yes, so they're really tall, they're bigger than me obviously.

00:23:24.369 --> 00:23:31.164
So I like to call the middle one the little brother and then I call the baby one the baby brother.

00:23:31.164 --> 00:23:36.797
So there's like the little brother and the baby brother which the girls howl over because there's so much bigger than me.

00:23:36.797 --> 00:23:42.291
Like it doesn't, they cannot get past it, Like they think it's so funny.

00:23:43.184 --> 00:23:44.548
I thought I need a picture of your brothers.

00:23:45.030 --> 00:23:46.424
Okay, actually.

00:23:46.424 --> 00:23:53.173
So last January my parents came to spend time with the girls and I am my dad's screensaver.

00:23:53.173 --> 00:23:58.101
Is this very like manly picture of my two brothers, like on his phone?

00:23:58.746 --> 00:24:03.490
So I hijacked his phone and I like cut myself, like I did a crappy job on purpose to.

00:24:03.490 --> 00:24:11.861
I cut myself in half and out on Canva and slapped it in the middle of my two brothers and then I redid his screen and he'll never be able to change it because he doesn't know how to use his phone like that.

00:24:11.861 --> 00:24:14.234
So he it took him a hot second.

00:24:14.234 --> 00:24:16.144
He was crying, laughing.

00:24:16.144 --> 00:24:19.935
I was like, yeah, three kids like what?

00:24:19.935 --> 00:24:24.695
And it's like me, we're like my hair done like it's like blowing in the wind in between these two.

00:24:24.695 --> 00:24:37.087
So my ex has been used to call my brothers like field and stream, because my brothers are like okay, hunters, like they can build anything, they can do anything, like they make stuff happen, which is so funny.

00:24:37.147 --> 00:24:48.018
Let me just pause you right there because I feel like, because you're a New Yorker and I'm born and raised in South Carolina, I would never stereotypical think that a New Yorker would be a hunter or a fisher.

00:24:48.746 --> 00:24:49.667
Oh no, they're like amazing.

00:24:49.667 --> 00:25:01.502
They go to like Montana and do all these things and like they're so funny it's, they're really good at it Like, not just like casual, like they have whole you know paycheck spent on this stuff.

00:25:01.502 --> 00:25:15.855
I don't even know how to explain, and I so that's one of the reasons I was vegetarian is because it was like oh, in my house that was like yes, Wow, I'm bringing it full circle for you.

00:25:17.887 --> 00:25:18.829
You're like onion.

00:25:18.829 --> 00:25:21.255
You just did nothing with all these layers.

00:25:21.715 --> 00:25:23.078
But I was very sheltered.

00:25:23.078 --> 00:25:45.164
So like I was athletic and I was good at sports, decent, and they didn't really do sports like in their high school years, I just sort of like stayed in this little pocket of like I have these two big little brothers and I was good at school, and so I just was sheltered like my group in a house where you you had to read for 30 minutes.

00:25:45.826 --> 00:25:46.126
Put your.

00:25:46.126 --> 00:25:47.431
You gotta get a clush of the mic.

00:25:47.431 --> 00:25:48.834
I'm sorry you have to get there.

00:25:48.834 --> 00:25:49.394
You're right there.

00:25:49.394 --> 00:25:50.096
Thank you.

00:25:50.625 --> 00:25:52.248
You just like this view of me, I think.

00:25:52.248 --> 00:26:02.209
But a fun fact, jenny means down into her mic and I lean up into mine and I don't know what that says about us.

00:26:02.209 --> 00:26:03.792
But you guys are welcome to unpack that.

00:26:03.792 --> 00:26:04.634
We'll get a picture of you.

00:26:04.634 --> 00:26:11.133
Yeah, so you in my house you couldn't watch.

00:26:11.133 --> 00:26:18.143
My mom was very serious about TV and now the woman has a TV in every single room and probably it's like what do you mean?

00:26:18.182 --> 00:26:19.164
she was serious about TV.

00:26:20.307 --> 00:26:20.666
Like you.

00:26:20.666 --> 00:26:23.152
Okay, you had to read for 30 minutes.

00:26:23.152 --> 00:26:31.184
Oh gosh, to earn 30 minutes of TV time, and then that was the maximum amount of time you could watch.

00:26:34.950 --> 00:26:42.941
I'm pretty sure that, like my parents, like, like they would just put me in front of the TV, like the TV was my babysitter.

00:26:44.446 --> 00:26:47.671
Same woman took us to Japan one year for Christmas.

00:26:49.032 --> 00:26:52.298
No, baby, I went to Myrtle Beach, Tokyo.

00:26:55.405 --> 00:26:56.366
So I've never saw like.

00:26:56.366 --> 00:26:58.108
I've never like.

00:26:58.108 --> 00:27:00.372
I saw Goonies for the first time in college.

00:27:01.053 --> 00:27:03.756
Oh my gosh, like you didn't watch Full House like.

00:27:03.776 --> 00:27:06.378
TGIF, like on Fridays we did.

00:27:06.378 --> 00:27:10.363
We had a family that we're still really closely, that we would go over to their house or they would come to ours.

00:27:10.363 --> 00:27:12.184
We'd order pizza and watch the Friday shows.

00:27:12.184 --> 00:27:23.184
Okay, but she also let us watch movies sometimes, and the top movies were Pretty Woman, a movie about prostitution.

00:27:23.806 --> 00:27:24.227
A Hooker.

00:27:24.386 --> 00:27:27.813
Yeah, top Gun, which I still to this day love.

00:27:27.813 --> 00:27:32.319
Yeah, and Dirty Dancing, which has some really intense themes.

00:27:32.721 --> 00:27:35.184
I know, but oh my gosh, it was like my favorite movie and I was a kid.

00:27:37.167 --> 00:27:37.347
I had to.

00:27:37.347 --> 00:27:38.509
My grandmother had these.

00:27:38.509 --> 00:27:47.402
I lived with my grandparents and my aunt and my mom and my grandmother had these like gold strappy sandals and so I would put them on.

00:27:47.402 --> 00:27:56.295
And then I had this dress that was like off the shoulder and so I would put it on and pretend I was penny and I thought I was the shiz, like probably work.

00:27:56.295 --> 00:28:00.181
No, my mom was like you cannot wear that to school and I would get so mad.

00:28:00.181 --> 00:28:03.089
She's like here I am letting my.

00:28:03.089 --> 00:28:11.083
I think I was like seven or eight, my seven or eight year old, like she's obsessed with this girl from Dirty Dancing which I should not have been watching that movie.

00:28:11.163 --> 00:28:14.910
but even to this day, I was watching it at that age, though I'm still obsessed with that movie.

00:28:14.910 --> 00:28:15.671
I'm obsessed.

00:28:15.671 --> 00:28:16.792
I'm the same.

00:28:16.792 --> 00:28:17.674
We should watch it together.

00:28:17.674 --> 00:28:19.878
I'm the same way with Pretty Woman.

00:28:20.885 --> 00:28:22.287
Oh love Pretty Woman.

00:28:22.307 --> 00:28:28.173
So I have fun fact about Dirty Dancing and I don't actually know if this is a fact, but somebody told this to me and then I did see it later.

00:28:28.673 --> 00:28:36.686
Apparently they were like enemies on set Patrick Swayze and oh my gosh, if you not watch that show on Netflix.

00:28:36.686 --> 00:28:38.388
Of course she hasn't, because you don't watch TV.

00:28:38.388 --> 00:28:41.933
So there's this show on Netflix called the Movies that Made Us.

00:28:41.933 --> 00:28:46.941
Oh my gosh, it's like a documentary.

00:28:46.941 --> 00:28:47.961
You would love this.

00:28:47.961 --> 00:29:05.444
So it has these all these different movies that are like big, like you know, have been famous for Scump, dirty, dancing, home Alone, elf, and it gives like the backstory of like how it got produced, all the things that kind of went wrong, like all the different like kind of behind the scenes thing.

00:29:05.444 --> 00:29:09.431
It's such a good show on Netflix, okay like such a good show.

00:29:10.211 --> 00:29:12.536
How are you ever gonna be able to catch up on all this TV?

00:29:13.317 --> 00:29:14.699
I know Well, so we?

00:29:14.699 --> 00:29:15.859
Yeah, what did you?

00:29:15.859 --> 00:29:16.761
What are you thinking about?

00:29:16.761 --> 00:29:19.184
Love Is Blind, because this is kind of how this conversation started.

00:29:19.786 --> 00:29:23.951
Well, they really have me roped in Like I first you gotta get near the mic, hang on.

00:29:23.951 --> 00:29:26.173
They really have me roped in.

00:29:26.173 --> 00:29:32.563
So I when the first proposal happened, because you just basically made me raw dog this show.

00:29:33.042 --> 00:29:33.924
You know they weren't blind people?

00:29:35.205 --> 00:29:36.907
And then who?

00:29:36.907 --> 00:29:40.932
Thinks that there's a lot of love on the spectrum.

00:29:40.932 --> 00:29:44.236
Oh my gosh, love is blind.

00:29:44.236 --> 00:29:45.798
Love is love on the spectrum.

00:29:45.798 --> 00:29:52.164
I just so, kate, you gave me the backstory of like they're just strangers and they don't get to see each other.

00:29:52.164 --> 00:29:57.634
I did not know that you could propose and just end it, if you like.

00:29:57.634 --> 00:29:58.636
Felt the love.

00:29:59.198 --> 00:30:00.881
Yes, I cried at the first one.

00:30:01.121 --> 00:30:01.682
Okay, so it was.

00:30:01.701 --> 00:30:06.869
Amy and Johnny were the first ones who got engaged Right For me yes, they're the winners.

00:30:07.830 --> 00:30:09.113
Yeah, for sure I love them.

00:30:09.113 --> 00:30:10.694
They realized it right away.

00:30:10.694 --> 00:30:15.320
Yes, they didn't mess around, they didn't get in everybody else's feelings like they clicked.

00:30:15.320 --> 00:30:19.486
They made it happen when they were saying, and they finally got to see each other, I like cried out.

00:30:19.486 --> 00:30:20.807
Their love was so cute.

00:30:21.267 --> 00:30:24.588
It's so cute so you got to go back and watch like the first.

00:30:24.588 --> 00:30:26.790
Was it first season?

00:30:27.230 --> 00:30:28.592
I was so excited for them where?

00:30:28.652 --> 00:30:29.932
it's Cameron and Lauren.

00:30:29.932 --> 00:30:42.479
Oh my gosh, yeah, I'm not gonna spoil, but like, oh my god, so good, like this show, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's such a like dumpster fire, like half the time, but then like the other.

00:30:42.499 --> 00:30:44.523
There's definitely predators in this.

00:30:44.523 --> 00:30:46.709
There's people who are absolutely operating.

00:30:46.709 --> 00:31:10.737
Not a fan so bad, it's so bad and then this is the other thing, because I feel like if you're in a situation like I am, where you're Divorced and back out in the world, you are either doing one of two things right you're like sort of traumatized and Angry.

00:31:11.338 --> 00:31:25.714
I'm neither of those things or you still like, love, love, so like that when they were like the emotional part of them seeing each other, I mean I was unhinged for I thought it was the sweetest thing.

00:31:25.996 --> 00:31:27.198
Oh wait till the weddings.

00:31:27.198 --> 00:31:29.423
I cry like a baby, nate's like.

00:31:29.963 --> 00:31:31.086
I don't know their weddings.

00:31:31.086 --> 00:31:34.221
Yes, jenny, what?

00:31:35.115 --> 00:31:42.645
You didn't say that, yeah, there's weddings, and then you're gonna be like, after it's over, you're gonna be like missing them, and then you're gonna go follow all of them on Instagram.

00:31:43.195 --> 00:31:47.269
So do we follow them as they like progress in their relationship?

00:31:47.269 --> 00:31:48.714
Oh, I thought we just lost them.

00:31:48.714 --> 00:31:52.414
I thought they just like won the show, basically no, there's no winning.

00:31:52.414 --> 00:31:58.729
You just yeah, they definitely just won because they did not mess around, they didn't operate, they found their people.

00:31:59.756 --> 00:32:01.000
Yeah, I didn't know we were gonna watch you.

00:32:01.000 --> 00:32:01.942
You gotta wait.

00:32:01.942 --> 00:32:03.105
What episode are you on?

00:32:03.105 --> 00:32:08.002
If you say to, I'm gonna kill you no, because people are engaged.

00:32:08.063 --> 00:32:10.769
I think I think I'm in for okay, okay.

00:32:11.175 --> 00:32:12.439
So yeah, so it's not.

00:32:12.439 --> 00:32:24.945
It's not all sunshine and daisies, because I am on episode 7 and last night the episodes that dropped yesterday.

00:32:24.945 --> 00:32:29.443
I'm like, oh my gosh, I was fussing at the TV.

00:32:32.743 --> 00:32:36.122
So, yeah, I love love, I love love.

00:32:36.122 --> 00:32:41.220
Okay, so we have a few minutes we do this.

00:32:41.220 --> 00:32:46.454
One has really been a lot about like us, not so much marketing, but I think that's actually good.

00:32:46.454 --> 00:32:52.124
I think it was a good choice to take episode 7 and Give you guys a little bit more insight.

00:32:53.496 --> 00:32:57.265
It all came to the crazy, into the crazy you're on the journey with us.

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Like, like Jenny said, we weren't.

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We were friendly, but we weren't really friends when we started.

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No, which is makes it even funnier, because that's just like who does that?

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It's like, hey, let's be friends.

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Look, I think we've been around each.

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I mean we think we'd had a drink together.

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Nope, no, we truly.

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I don't even know how to tell you guys, like I don't know how to properly get you to understand how this, how Unhinged, this isn't like we absolutely Truly were talking on Instagram about a marketing concept.

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We were both drinking we.

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We were both drinking wine.

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Talking about marketing and, seriously, all I said was we should start a podcast.

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And I said, great, I will be there Monday.

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And I meant it, she did she meant it.

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There are just times where you have to take the leap, like you, that you're only gonna have a door open so many times and I was like I just have this feeling, this innate feeling that I just have to trust, I mean.

00:34:06.137 --> 00:34:17.409
And here we are here we are talking galas and love is blonde If we know an awful lot about each other now, but we continue to find things to unpack.

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It is it's yeah, it's our.

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Our relationship is also like an onion.

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I actually hate that saying.

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Do you think it?

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I think we need to say like lasagna, because I feel like I like lasagna, like layers, better than like an onion layer.

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I have a deep connection to lasagna.

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So when I was doing therapy, like intensive last year, when I was going every week and I was trying to figure out, I was trying to find my voice in some ways, and one of the things that we were talking about because I said, you know, I'm a mom, my wife, the house and I have this job and I just feel like Not quite dialed in where I want to be one of the things she unpacked for me but I didn't even know what's happening was like dinner.

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She was like, okay, like tell me about dinner, because, right, your mom and a wife like you give to everybody else, which I didn't realize she was leading me in this direction.

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Oh, where's this guy?

00:35:12.085 --> 00:35:13.070
Okay, so she was like what's for?

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dinner this week.

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So I walk her through it and she was how many of those things do you like?

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Oh, and I didn't, I don't like any of them.

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I didn't at the time, Okay, and she was like what's one of your favorite dinners?

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It's like a family dinner.

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And I was like I love lasagna.

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And she was like when's the last time you made lasagna?

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I was like, oh, probably.

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She said you're making lasagna this week and you are not providing a substitute for anyone.

00:35:44.675 --> 00:35:51.789
And it went like I just kind of got like anxious when you said that like I cannot imagine making several rounds of meals in my home.

00:35:53.056 --> 00:35:56.931
Yeah, no, I definitely made lasagna, did everybody love it.

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The girls love pasta and they love red sauce, so they got there.

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I think they at first they were like, but I ended up making it again, actually over things.

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No, I made ziti over Thanksgiving.

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They love anything that's like pizza red.

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I'm gonna give me a bread, give me carbs, cheese and red sauce and I'm like.

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Sold, but it was lasagna.

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That was like I could, and I I named it so far.

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She literally said like you just said that so fast.

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Like you want lasagna, you're allowed to like one of the dinners in your house.

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I Haven't either, but I feel like I cook things that I like I think you do.

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I do all the grocery shopping like, no, you're by golly, you're eating what I'm.

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And my husband is also like he would eat a Boot if I served it.

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He wouldn't.

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He doesn't care, he's just like, yeah, this is great, thank you, yeah, no, yeah.

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All right number seven, lucky seven.

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A little bit more insight into us and lasagna.

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Yeah, we'll do this again.

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It's because we keep learning all the things about each other If you guys have questions for us too, like I love the internet like you guys have given us so much feedback, so much interaction, so much.

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I love it.

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Oh no, thank you so much.

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It's been so great.

00:37:20.195 --> 00:37:25.561
But it would be fun to do a podcast where, like we get questions.

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I would love that, so like, let's, we'll toss it out into the universe and I'll open it up when this airs on instagram, and then you can write the questions in the comment section or something like that.

00:37:36.534 --> 00:37:44.344
But like, let's go ahead and like, let's make this the thing that has to do with the Like, let's go ahead and like, let's make this the thing that happens sometimes.

00:37:44.344 --> 00:37:51.739
Because I'm sure you guys, I have this feeling that if you unpacked us for us, it would be even better.

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Oh, for sure because we're going at the fastest rate possible, but we're also building two businesses, and so a lot of it is still business.

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But I have this feeling that if people ask us the questions that they want the answers to, um, it would get it would be just like a topic, because I do love just like a brain dump, like I thought of one today when I was getting in my car and I was like we need to talk about this.

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I'm not gonna bring up what it is just yet?

00:38:17.494 --> 00:38:18.056
Yeah, don't say it.

00:38:18.478 --> 00:38:20.965
I'm not, but I we need to talk about it, yeah.

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So episode nine or episode 10, because that will give us enough time to sort of like ask the question Um, maybe episode 10.

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Yeah, let's do it.

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I like it All.

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Right.

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Cool, I'm into it.

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Thanks guys, see you next week.