Feb. 6, 2025

Dips, Divorce & Vampire Facials

Dips, Divorce & Vampire Facials
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Season 5

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Didn’t see this one coming. Remember that Philly cheesesteak dip we discussed? Guess who doesn’t love it … Jenny. But you’ll never guess why. This one starts with some deep belly laughs - maybe because we’re in marketing but, who here has been personally victimized by unclear packaging? In this case, Jenny openly admits to melting cheese for her dogs, but not for herself. What in the mayhem …

The “Miller vs Miller” emails are over. We’re divorced. And we’re in our feelings - about all the things. This one felt like an endurance race, tears and all. Of course - no one gets married and plans to get divorced. Let’s shed the stigma on this one - this is important - so we open the dialogue for an honest to goodness update on this new reality.  Of course, as moms, we’re the example and we take those role so seriously (in work, in love, in life - and not everything is meant for forever). 

Mel Robbin’s “Let Them”  weaves its way back into our conversations.  We’re shedding the weight of other people’s actions - AND we’re using Chat GPT to start our day with affirmations. Yes. Chat GPT - remember when we introduced you to it? We’re using it daily, borderline hourly. From ingredient lists, affirmations, stats, nonsense knowledge …it’s everything. But it won’t remind you to heat up your cheese dip …

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Hosted by @raebecca.miller and @jennyfromthe843

00:11 - Dog Training and Queso Dip Misunderstanding

13:59 - Emotional Journey Through Divorce and Coping

20:39 - Navigating Life's Challenges and Support

27:52 - Family Fun at the Stingrays

35:03 - Dating, Creatine, and Airborne Immunity

44:50 - Beauty and Health Chat

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Good morning.

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Good morning, so we don't ever come to these podcasts with purpose.

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That's not true, I mean usually.

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We have intentions.

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Intentions okay, but much like all of our intentions, we choose a word right and we're like squirrel love it.

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So my type a heart is really excited that we have some things to talk about today.

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Well, it's been a minute, it's been a hot minute and maybe that's what it is like.

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I feel like when I don't see you and then we have like guests and we get like a moment to catch up, I'm like I got so many things to talk about.

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I know, I know All right, but I'm going to start with the bad news first.

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Well, it's my bad news?

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Oh yeah, we can start with yours, but mine is very trivial compared to yours.

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We can start with yours, but mine is very trivial compared to yours.

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Wait, no, do your bad news.

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Well, you're going to think that it's really stupid now.

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No news is news, first of all, as long as we're not watching the actual news.

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News is news.

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I don't like the Philly cheesesteak dip.

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I knew it because you didn't say anything to Kirsten and I.

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I know I knew you didn't.

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I really tried.

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I tried it on a chip, I tried it on a cracker, I tried it twice you heat it up no, I didn't heat it up ew what it's like.

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Queso dog.

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It's a queso dip.

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It's a cheese fucking.

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What are you doing?

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Oh my god, are you being funny?

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Ew, it's more, you're warming like queso.

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It's cheese dip.

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I'm gonna piss my pants.

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Oh my god does it say are you serious?

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Yeah, it's cheese I am hold on, let me, I'm crying.

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I have only eaten it warm.

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I was served it warm the first time.

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I've eaten it warm every time since.

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Otherwise it's kind of like boogery looking.

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Wait.

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Dude it doesn't say that.

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I was served it in a dish where it was bubbling hot and I have put it in the microwave.

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It's cheese, it's queso, I thought.

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I am dying.

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I know I did I did.

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Oh my god, hold on.

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Look at the sides in the back.

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It's kind of like squirrely looking without it being warmed up.

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Yeah, it wasn't great.

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It's cheese dip.

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When have you ever had a cold cheese dip, maybe like cheese whiz?

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wow, I'm really glad that we unpacked this on air so glad damn I I'm like dying that no, I have tears running down my face.

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It's fucking cheese dip dude even nate.

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I made him try it and I'm like, am I missing something?

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He was like that is not good.

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I'm like I didn't think so either it's queso with meat and jalapenos.

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Let's go back to the drawing board this evening and I will let you know if I like it or I don't know, I served it in a dish where it was like bubbling on the sides, and I don't know that because I was served it that way.

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I don't know if I ever thought about it, but I like think that Kirsten brought it like warmed to her event too.

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Why would you not say that it's cheese Dip, dipping cheese Like fondue?

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Queso Didn't get the memo.

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Nope, shoot, all right.

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Sometimes I'm the more literal person and I like miss something.

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I am dying.

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I know this is like so good, because usually if somebody is going to miss it on the literal part, it's going to be me, and then everyone's going to look at me and be like Rebecca and I'm like, oh shoot, was that?

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I missed it?

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But like the fact that I mean, I don't know, I would have to look online.

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The fact that we just figured this out while we're recording makes it even funny.

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It even looks different when you warm it.

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It was not good.

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I'm like what are they talking?

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about it's pizza with meat and jalapenos in it.

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Yeah, don't recommend not eating it.

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It's not a sour cream dip, you fucking put a chip in it.

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Would you buy the spinach artichoke dip and just put a chip in it there?

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I mean, I want that one too.

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I mean, I want that one too.

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I mean, yeah, I, I, I like cold spinach and artichoke dip.

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I don't know if I do, I don't know if I do.

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Actually, I just really like it Truly, the highlight of my week, I think, oh my God, that is funny, can?

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you please text Nate right now.

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I serious, I'm going to be like so apparently it sucks because you're supposed to hit it.

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Heat it up.

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Yeah, it's queso, okay, yep, well, there goes there, there you go.

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That sums, sums me up in a nutshell nailed it.

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how are you?

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I'm good.

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So we have bad news for the listeners, sad news for me.

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We had to put the bulldog down, which blows.

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Rest in peace, sweet girl RIP.

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I'm going to cry for a different reason.

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It got out of control fast.

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It was already kind of out of control, but then we went downhill pretty quickly.

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Their last what was it?

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Two weeks ago, so that sucked.

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So in turn, um, I am trying to train my dog, which I think is just going incredible.

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Are you being?

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facetious, or are you being for real?

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Well, it used to be a joke in my first marriage, like you know, like bad santa, where that kid's always like, do you guys want some sandwiches?

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Um, because, like I love to feed people and I like, like you know, my kids are used to this and like, whatever it's like a big deal, like, come over to my house, I'm gonna feed you.

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I just whatever new yorker, however, that works.

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So the trainer that I found, which, by the way, is a YouTube trainer, will Atherton, my friend Jonah found him.

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He also has a puppy.

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So we're like doing this kind of like chatting back and forth about this.

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It's all treat reliant, which I live for.

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Yeah, the dog is thriving.

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She is just eating the shit out of.

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She will dance the whole dance for you.

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But I'm like I don't actually know if we're learning anything or if you're just like obsessed with me feeding you treats.

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I just I kind of feel like that kid, like you guys want some sandwiches, do you want to to?

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sit.

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Yeah, I mean, if you do that with me, if you'd be like hey, Jenny, I'll give you like a cube of cheese.

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If you do this, I'll probably respond.

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She only likes one kind of treat because she's a div which I'm not even shocked by.

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We've gone through like 16 different kinds.

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We only like the peanut butter flavor pill pocket.

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Oh my God.

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Tani loves, oh my.

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God, tiny loves those.

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Oh yeah, the obsession's real.

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So we have two 30 packs and one 60 pack.

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They're everywhere in here.

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I am obviously like tearing them up in little pieces.

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She also slept in my bed last night, so I don't.

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I really don't know how that impacts training, but Ta-da.

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Oh, that's, you're supposed to get dogs to love on Right, so she's actually learning things.

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I think tiny is in his diva, so you know he's got heartworm, so we're dealing with all of that and we have given like four pills a day.

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Yeah, so it was the pill pockets that you just showed.

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Yeah, well, now he's figured out that there's medicine in them.

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Yeah, so nate was melting cheese and putting the pills inside the cheese.

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I love that you're melting Tiny Tim's food, but you're eating a Publix dip raw cold.

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The logic is really wild for me.

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I'm not trying to judge you, but we listen and we don't judge.

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But now Tiny has figured out that there's pills in the cheese, so now I'm having to make him a salting peanut butter sandwich cracker.

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Tiny's brilliant.

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He is brilliant.

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This man lived outside in the wilderness.

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He's just working you guys so hard.

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I know Sometimes what I will buy is you know at Costco how they have the packs of the mozzarella balls where it's like the three balls in a pack?

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Oh my God, I'm obsessed with them.

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That's what I put the pills in sometimes here.

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Oh, that's genius and what.

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I like to do is, because there's three in a pack, is hold a second one when I give them the pill one and they get so hyper-focused on the second one because they want that second one that they chuck back the pill one and then they take the one that doesn't have the pill.

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Look at you, dog whisperer, a big fan of the mozzarella balls.

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Well, sissy also figured out that her UTI because we were on our 20-day UTI medication.

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She actually took it out of the pill packet twice this week, set it on the floor, I picked it up and then she ate it raw out of my hand.

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I was like what in God's name are you doing?

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I picked it up and then she ate it raw out of my hand.

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I was like what in God's name are you doing?

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What in the boxer universe?

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Is that logic?

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Yeah, nate's like look, he's like well, you need to melt cheese.

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I was like I'm going to be.

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No, this is wild.

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Get the mozzarella balls hold the placebo, hand the pill one, and they're just going to be dying for that second one, and they snatch them both.

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I, you're just going to be dying for that second one.

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And they snatch them both, I know, but I freaking got boozy too, so now I have to make him a peanut butter sandwich cracker.

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This is crazy, oh my gosh.

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And by the way, this is usually in the morning or the evening when I'm trying to get out the door or trying to get dinner cooked.

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No, I highly recommend the mozzarella balls trick.

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Give me the mozzarella.

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They are greedy.

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I love those mozzarella balls trick because they're green, I love those mozzarella balls.

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I put them in the lunches every day I put two in everyone's lunch.

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That's a good idea.

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Clark is not a cheese girl, which means she's probably not my child.

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I mean they come back sometimes, which annoys me.

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Well, we are going to miss your girl, but she is in a better place.

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Yeah, I think she was in a better place.

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Yeah, I think she was really starting not to.

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That's the vet.

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And I said I love my vet.

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I go to Park West Vet or sorry, not Park West Vet, pet Vet on Shem Creek.

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We used to go to Park West Vet.

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The veterinarian cried when we were putting Bindi down, which I just think.

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I grew up in a veterinary hospital.

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My mom is a vet tech.

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She established some really cool programs with the main vet at the hospital that she works in in Hilton.

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I nannied for him.

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We were deeply embedded in that.

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I spent a million days going to other people's houses or into the animal hospital to help with puppies or all that stuff.

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But there's so much compassion from them.

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I just feel like the world could use just a little bit more empathy and like, do you know that being a veterinarian has one of the highest suicide rates?

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Yes, really True story, one of the highest suicide rates.

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And then I was thinking about that and it doesn't shock me because, like, the majority of their job is like.

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It doesn't shock me because, like, the majority of their job is like has to be empathetic because they're animals.

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You can't be a total like lack of empathy person and work with animals all day.

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My vet loves this puppy too.

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He's so funny about her, but he's like these ears are so funny she is so funny.

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Clark's dying to come see her.

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I should always show her your picture.

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Cause I'm working with the training, so we're going to bring people in, we're going to get our life together.

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Because she got away with murder, because the older dog was so much work, yeah, she had to get a new food bowl.

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I realized the other day when she was eating.

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I was like why is her food bowl so small?

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Food bowl so small and like she had other big bowls but she has an, a neater feeder, yeah, okay.

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So I was like this is looking out of scale.

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So I upgraded her.

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So I'm gonna go put the baby one on the buy nothing with shoes with clark.

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I legit took her to.

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I've had her in a six and a half I think I've talked about this for women's, a women's six and a half, I think I've talked about this before A women's, a women's six and a half.

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I took her to a room.

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I mean, I've had her in a six and a half since, like last summer and we're what.

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No way I took her to a back room.

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She's in the eight.

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We wear the same size shoe.

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I'm so bad at shoes with her I have a spark with the same size shoe as me.

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She just got.

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We got big feet.

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I mean I'm an eight and a half, but yeah, then you don't have big feet.

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I can wear an eight or an eight and a half.

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I was like that too.

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I was.

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My mom used to call me like olive oil when I was growing up.

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You remember from Popeye, that's such a mean thing to say Because I was like tall and skinny and big feet.

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I can't get excited about this, but yes, I do know.

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She's built like I was at that age.

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I'm sure your mom meant it in a really nice way.

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Yeah, I'm sure so what else?

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what else have you had this week?

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Cause I also have not seen you since I got married.

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God.

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Well, so I, um, I also am officially divorced.

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You know I like to joke that my divorce attorney who, by the way, I highly recommend you will need to reach out to me privately if you want his information, because I'm not going to share it on air for two reasons.

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Get out of that plant.

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I swear to God, I'm down to two fucking plants.

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See, at least Donnie doesn't eat plants, he just eats everything else in my home.

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She gets in the dirt and then rips the roots out, so she needs more dirt.

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But I'm sorry, I'm not going to recommend him on the air for two reasons.

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Not because he's not incredible I have a sneaking suspicion that my divorce attorney is somewhere on the spectrum.

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I read the email.

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I would.

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No, I've said this our entire time, and he was recommended to me by a friend and I met with a few attorneys, but she was like this person I need you to understand is never going to give you any emotion, like you are.

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There was a moment when I was first meeting with him where he said you have a lot of questions.

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There's a frequently asked questions page on my website.

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I suggest you spend some time there.

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Okay, I mean like my world is like falling apart.

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I was like, oh God, I couldn't do that.

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Well, but I was like, well, it'll probably save me some money.

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I'll tell you what, though the lack of emotion was exactly what I needed.

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Yeah, when the email came across which, by the way, I've been waiting for because I knew it was coming soon it literally says Rebecca, you are divorced.

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It said I will get your divorce decree in the mail in two business days, but it literally says Rebecca, you are divorced.

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And I was like it's a pleasure.

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It was very abrupt and final.

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Yes, I told you the last time I met with him in person.

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He gave me a compliment and he was like you know what I enjoyed working with you.

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You're smart and you're not crazy.

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And I was like that is probably one of the nicest compliments that this man has ever given anyone nicest compliments that this man has ever given anyone.

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I'm taking it.

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I'm taking it, sir.

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I hope you enjoyed your paycheck and thank you.

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You kind of have to be right.

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I feel like no, there's so many who like because it's a business, and I met with quite a few attorneys who you could tell it is their business.

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So they're going to fight, fight, fight, fight, cash, cash, cash, cash all day long.

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And I don't think that my heart could have gone through the emotional back and forth of like no, there were things I wanted, and he was like that's unrealistic.

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I was like I wonder if I would go.

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I think I'd go after like a bulldog, like I'd want somebody who'd be like hell.

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no, go after like a bulldog, like I'd want somebody.

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He'd be like hell, no, like like there were things where, when they said it, there were two times where they came up with something from the other side and he didn't even ask me for my opinion.

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He was like we will not be doing that and I was like see, greg talks to you the same way that he talks to me.

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That's what I like.

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I'm not here because I did what I didn't want is somebody who's going to be like we should.

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You know what, if that's important to you, we're going to try to get it.

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And then we drag it out.

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You're right, that's a good point.

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And then you don't get it.

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But then you spend another two grand and I'll tell you what if I never see another Miller versus Miller email in my fricking life, I will rest easy.

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And so stressful because you're just like what is it going to be?

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What is it going to be?

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Ugh, we've got something, pure joy.

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Come on, boys.

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The Miller versus Miller email chain did not bring me joy.

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Well, how are you feeling?

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Well, I actually cried really hard, which took me by surprise because I have not been very emotional.

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But I will say this I was thinking about it.

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I was like what in the frick was that Like?

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As soon as I read it.

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But I also used to be an endurance athlete this is the only way I can think of this.

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Like 70 mile races, a hundred mile races that was my thing.

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Like you need somebody to swim two miles?

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Cool?

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Um, this fricking dog has my shoe Hold on.

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And at the finish line of every single one of those races I have always cried and there were always a lot of tears, and it was never because I was mad that I did it or I was sad that I did it.

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I just think when I'm that tired and I finally do finish something that big, that is basically how I react.

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So it's just like a release.

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Yeah, that's very much what it felt like.

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But I was like this reminds me of how I felt, cause then once I like it wasn't even a long cry, but it was a hard cry, and then I just like well, that's that.

00:18:08.892 --> 00:18:15.729
That's that well, I will say your posts that you did were beautiful, because I think that that's I do.

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I was wondering what you would think, because you remember when I posted the Travis Kelsey thing you're like I would not have done that.

00:18:21.308 --> 00:18:30.085
I wouldn't have, but like the way you framed it with the seriousness of you know, we had a beautiful wedding, we had a beautiful life.

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We can still move forward.

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I just want to do better for my kids and show them different.

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I just I love the messaging of it because I do think and I don't think it is anymore, but there has been a stigma attached with divorce.

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I think for sure there's a lot of shame.

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Like people still have like these big reactions and I'm like nobody gets married thinking that they're going to get divorced ever.

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And like we have pictures where we like look great and we're having fun.

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It's not like we were like miserable every day, but at the end of the day there was enough bigger things that were like this is not a good example for our kids.

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Yeah so, but like we have even like some of the wedding pictures.

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I'm like you know that's a little unfair Cause.

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Like those are my.

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I mean, I loved my wedding photos, I loved my.

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My friends were like this is the most.

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Like we did all kinds of non-traditional things at my wedding.

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They're like this is the most.

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And when I told especially some of my high school friends that I was getting divorced, I have a very close friend named Jenny um in New York and she was like you were my favorite couple and I was like I, that was a lot of people's reactions, right, and I was like we had a really good dynamic but it wasn't always good.

00:19:45.313 --> 00:19:58.751
And of course you add kids and life and you move and family stress and then people grow or don't grow and at the end of the day, I'm proud of not holding on to something that wasn't meant for forever.

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Yeah, Well, and you know, I think we all I mean obviously kind of being along with you this past year, yeah, and it's just it's not easy, and it's not an easy thing to do.

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I think it's almost easier.

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Well, it is easier to stay in a bad, you know, relationship or one that you're not completely satisfied with, and just to see how well you've handled it and it just it's really hard and you've pushed through and you've just done all the things.

00:20:32.826 --> 00:20:34.269
It is actually crazy hard.

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I there are things that I will never, ever tell with divorce women.

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So, like, one thing that people kept saying to me was like well, the next part's going to be the hardest.

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After I got the attorney.

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I wish that nobody said that to me.

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I just think that is.

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I hate how people it's this weird mentality about anything that's hard right, starting a business.

00:20:55.094 --> 00:20:57.228
They do the exact same thing, right?

00:20:57.228 --> 00:20:58.846
Well, have you thought about this?

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You know what our advice to you would be if you're going to start a business, just do it.

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Yes, you will figure it out.

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It's not going to be perfect.

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You're not going to do it all too.

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It changes every day.

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Don't let some random old person tell you to write your business plan first and make that stop you.

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Like whatever is going to stop you, I highly suggest you skip it and circle back.

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Don't sit there and not do it if it's calling you Yep, like I just.

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And so for me and I think this is more true for women making the decision was the harder part.

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Right, it didn't get less ugly for a second, but like the years where I was like I don't know if I want to do this when I'm 60 or 70 or 80.

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I wonder how my daughters feel about that.

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I wonder, like I I maybe not being fully honest with my friends or my parents.

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I don't know if I liked that part about me.

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All of those pieces were much scarier than going through the process, even though the Miller versus Miller emails made me want to throw up and I did on multiple occasions, I'm sure like it's that I hated that.

00:22:08.666 --> 00:22:11.048
Everyone's like it's going to get a little harder, like shut the fuck up.

00:22:11.048 --> 00:22:14.932
Yeah, honestly, that's the kind of stuff you don't need, like you.

00:22:14.932 --> 00:22:16.173
You need people to be like.

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If it feels hard, call me.

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If you need a coffee, call me.

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Like you need people.

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My friends were great.

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Like they kept bringing us to 4th of July parties or whatever it was.

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At the same time, you know we have multiple houses where all of our girls grew up together and we would go and we weren't weird about it.

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I mean, there were definitely times where I maybe wanted to really act a little wild, but it's not healthy for me and it's not healthy for the girls.

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We showed up as co-parents, we verbally committed to this before we even got into it and, like our friends have done the exact same thing.

00:22:51.733 --> 00:22:56.351
It's not easy on anyone, but we have a good support system.

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I'm very proud of you.

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I feel like just seeing.

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I mean cause you know my parents are divorced and they are happily remarried now.

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But it's just changed so much since then.

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You know we talk in the 80s, 90s and then again being a daughter on the receiving end of it, like I'm just, I'm really proud of you.

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It is.

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I will tell you it has been.

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I'm proud of myself and I'm allowed to say that I there was.

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There's some things I still.

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You know.

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The bulldog's death actually brought up a lot of anger for me but at the end of the day.

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It's just like I want all those emotions now to come out and surface and then move on.

00:23:43.046 --> 00:23:45.571
But I just I, I'm not going to live in them.

00:23:45.571 --> 00:23:50.084
It's like a weird dirty diaper, like I'm, whatever it is.

00:23:50.084 --> 00:23:58.741
You know, this has been an interesting week with even like family right now and I'm like, let them, I just keep going back to this.

00:23:58.741 --> 00:24:17.865
It's not so good, right, you're just like that is a you thing and learning that even from Izzy, that therapist that I had that like hey, you actually cannot control their behavior, but you have to make a decision about whether or not that's a fit for you, right?

00:24:17.905 --> 00:24:18.105
Let them.

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Let them.

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There you go.

00:24:20.067 --> 00:24:20.607
That's a fit for you, right?

00:24:20.607 --> 00:24:20.788
Let them.

00:24:20.788 --> 00:24:21.167
Let them.

00:24:21.167 --> 00:24:22.749
So I have.

00:24:22.749 --> 00:24:26.612
We always talk about chat, gbt and the beautiful uses of it.

00:24:26.612 --> 00:24:29.201
Yes, guess what I've started using it for now?

00:24:29.201 --> 00:24:33.779
Ooh what Daily affirmations, oh what are you saying to?

00:24:33.901 --> 00:24:35.759
it, and so that's just.

00:24:35.759 --> 00:24:44.006
I need a daily affirmation today, and today I asked it to give me one, utilizing the Mel Robbins.

00:24:44.006 --> 00:24:47.641
Let them theory Ooh Yep, and it said ready.

00:24:47.641 --> 00:24:52.421
Let them underestimate you, let them doubt you, let them question your path.

00:24:52.421 --> 00:24:54.674
Their opinions do not define your potential.

00:24:54.674 --> 00:24:59.886
You are building something real, something meaningful, and you don't need permission to succeed.

00:24:59.886 --> 00:25:02.713
Something meaningful and you don't need permission to succeed.

00:25:02.713 --> 00:25:06.506
Keep moving forward with confidence, knowing that your work, your passion and your integrity will speak louder than anything else.

00:25:07.455 --> 00:25:09.483
And isn't that the truth, though?

00:25:10.515 --> 00:25:12.221
I mean Chad GPT.

00:25:12.221 --> 00:25:14.046
You were like my biggest cheerleader.

00:25:14.046 --> 00:25:14.939
I love Chad GPT.

00:25:14.939 --> 00:25:19.924
Maybe I should have asked him if I needed to heat up the deep.

00:25:26.157 --> 00:25:27.926
I'm going to be laughing about this all week, though it's queso.

00:25:27.926 --> 00:25:35.826
When you eat it, it's like never use the word queso cheese dip well, there's like pimento cheese dip and you eat meat.

00:25:35.826 --> 00:25:36.847
There's meat in it.

00:25:36.847 --> 00:25:43.517
I don't I mean like would you eat cold hamburger, I just can't even with how stupid and funny this is.

00:25:43.737 --> 00:25:46.221
It's not stupid, but it is really funny.

00:25:46.221 --> 00:26:01.627
I just like I the one thing I have absolutely learned, whether it's in the last year or forever, and I'm still learning it, because I had a thing happen this week and it took me about 24 hours to even get my mind to the let them place.

00:26:01.627 --> 00:26:23.455
But I'm like man, people are going to work so hard to give you their insecurities and their triggers and they don't even realize how much they are shelling out, whether it's negative or doom or whatever, and I'm like it's just not for me.

00:26:23.455 --> 00:26:26.541
And I'm not poly positive, but like.

00:26:26.541 --> 00:26:30.396
I saw this the other day on Instagram and I think this is worth talking about.

00:26:30.778 --> 00:26:42.987
One of the weirdest things about living by yourself is that you realize in your daily life that you are used to a certain amount of validation.

00:26:42.987 --> 00:26:47.885
Right, like when you live with your parents, you get like, oh, you should think about doing it this way.

00:26:47.885 --> 00:26:49.618
Oh, you shouldn't think about doing it this way.

00:26:49.618 --> 00:26:50.982
Or like, okay.

00:26:50.982 --> 00:26:53.818
So like people are watching your college application deadlines.

00:26:53.818 --> 00:27:00.441
Or like people are coming to your sports when you live alone zero, which is wild.

00:27:00.441 --> 00:27:04.259
So, like you change your eye shadow, no one gives two fucks.

00:27:04.259 --> 00:27:06.701
No, your hair, you come home.

00:27:06.701 --> 00:27:08.402
No one's like oh, your hair looks pretty.

00:27:08.402 --> 00:27:12.526
So for a little bit that gets like weird and lonely.

00:27:12.526 --> 00:27:27.865
And then you get to the part where you're like this is I'm actually really powerful because, like I don't get that from anywhere, I'm not going to quickly replace it, right, I don't want to just like bring someone in a stand in to give me validation.

00:27:28.776 --> 00:27:40.588
Um, I've been really careful about like, not just like jumping into stuff, but but I will say that, just because you are like I don't live alone, yeah, you are like I don't live alone.

00:27:47.115 --> 00:27:49.300
And I mean, that is not like words of affirmation, is not my husband's strong suit.

00:27:49.320 --> 00:27:51.065
No, I don't think men are good at words of affirmation, but I do think Hang on.

00:27:51.065 --> 00:27:51.946
I got to tell you this story.

00:27:51.946 --> 00:27:52.888
You'll get a kick out of this.

00:27:52.888 --> 00:27:59.065
So the other night we're eating dinner I made a delicious meal, healthy, beautiful.

00:27:59.065 --> 00:28:01.666
You warmed it up for everyone, you made it warm a delicious meal, healthy, beautiful.

00:28:01.666 --> 00:28:02.369
You warmed it up for everyone.

00:28:02.369 --> 00:28:02.711
You made it warm.

00:28:02.711 --> 00:28:03.194
Yes, it was warm salmon.

00:28:03.194 --> 00:28:05.258
Yes, I'm like Nate.

00:28:05.258 --> 00:28:07.964
How is it Go to?

00:28:07.964 --> 00:28:08.626
It's good.

00:28:08.626 --> 00:28:21.237
I finally had just had enough of that I said can we not find another adjective than it's good.

00:28:22.558 --> 00:28:23.599
How about we do it before?

00:28:23.599 --> 00:28:25.281
I ask, because I actually mean.

00:28:25.281 --> 00:28:28.286
He said, well, I mean, what do you want me to say?

00:28:28.286 --> 00:28:29.186
It's really good.

00:28:29.186 --> 00:28:31.849
I'm like, hang on, let's ask, chat GPT.

00:28:31.849 --> 00:28:38.694
So I want to chat GPT for that too.

00:28:38.694 --> 00:28:45.201
And it gave me all kinds of compliments that he can say taste and flavor, about my effort and skill, about my emotional connection.

00:28:45.201 --> 00:28:45.563
Let's go, okay.

00:28:45.563 --> 00:28:49.938
One of them is your cooking always makes me feel loved and taken care of.

00:28:49.938 --> 00:28:53.042
There you go, boom, boom.

00:28:53.042 --> 00:28:57.470
Your cooking makes even an ordinary day feel special.

00:28:57.470 --> 00:29:03.481
I like if I said this, you'd be like no, I want you to say it.

00:29:05.521 --> 00:29:08.022
I'm like, let's not use that as an excuse.

00:29:08.022 --> 00:29:09.280
Let's dig a little deeper.

00:29:10.455 --> 00:29:12.083
I want him to say it before you ask.

00:29:12.255 --> 00:29:15.634
I will say you just get on my nerves about it.

00:29:15.674 --> 00:29:17.122
No, no, no, Nate, you're amazing.

00:29:17.122 --> 00:29:20.282
I'm just saying set the tone for these boys.

00:29:20.282 --> 00:29:40.027
Come on, there is something about it, though, where, like that, even just talking about kids' sports or like their day is weirdly like alone, because you're like I mean, the kids will say funny stuff and I'm like no one else even realizes this is wild.

00:29:40.027 --> 00:29:43.284
So, like Summit won an award at school.

00:29:43.284 --> 00:29:50.368
So this week mr sims called me and he was like well, first he said it just said charleston county.

00:29:50.368 --> 00:29:52.219
And so I was like hello.

00:29:52.219 --> 00:29:54.003
He was like miss miller.

00:29:54.003 --> 00:29:55.467
And of course I said who is this?

00:29:55.467 --> 00:30:01.465
Because of my new york was like sir, get it out what.

00:30:01.465 --> 00:30:02.588
He started laughing.

00:30:02.588 --> 00:30:03.656
He goes, it's Mr Sims.

00:30:03.656 --> 00:30:07.144
And I was like oh no, what's wrong?

00:30:07.144 --> 00:30:10.979
And he was like actually, summit has won an award.

00:30:10.979 --> 00:30:12.323
And so I was calling to tell you about it.

00:30:12.323 --> 00:30:13.807
And I was like all right.

00:30:14.615 --> 00:30:20.883
And so with the award, she won pizza with the principal, which, by the way, she has been trying to earn since her first day of kindergarten.

00:30:20.883 --> 00:30:26.538
She's obsessed with pizza with the principal, she loves Mr Sims and she actually wants to be a principal when she grows up.

00:30:26.538 --> 00:30:30.007
So she, I was like does she know yet?

00:30:30.007 --> 00:30:32.118
Like she's going to go insane.

00:30:32.118 --> 00:30:34.163
Oh, I love that.

00:30:34.163 --> 00:30:43.517
Like pizza with the principal, what she's always like, yeah, and I see them bring the pizzas and their Costco pizza Hell yeah, man, get it girl.

00:30:43.517 --> 00:30:46.104
So she's like I want you.

00:30:46.104 --> 00:30:49.036
Summit doesn't have to bring a lunch on Friday, she has pizza.

00:30:49.036 --> 00:30:50.219
And I was like do you know that?

00:30:50.219 --> 00:30:50.901
This is he?

00:30:50.901 --> 00:30:54.978
So he's dying laughing because he's like, really Cause she never says anything.

00:30:54.978 --> 00:30:56.559
I'm like right, that's why we call her the sauce.

00:30:56.559 --> 00:30:59.865
It's like something out of an Italian mafia movie.

00:30:59.865 --> 00:31:09.902
I'm like Joy Bologna, you know, like Tony Bologna, joy Bagadona, it's in the sauce, she's not going to break character for you.

00:31:09.902 --> 00:31:13.250
Like she is 100% Scorpio, all black, everyday mafia.

00:31:13.250 --> 00:31:14.092
Like she's not.

00:31:15.655 --> 00:31:17.482
I'm so glad that she won it, though.

00:31:17.482 --> 00:31:19.038
So so do you know what?

00:31:19.078 --> 00:31:20.584
she won it for what?

00:31:20.584 --> 00:31:39.529
Bodily and emotional control, which is also, by the way, the most summit elise miller mafia award ever.

00:31:39.529 --> 00:31:49.743
I was like he's like she has been recognized by her teacher and other teachers for keeping an extreme amount of control over herself.

00:31:49.984 --> 00:32:40.721
That means her voice, listening to directions, her hands, her feet, as a first grader, and I was like this doesn't shock me at all, this, I'm telling you, when we joke that her name is the sauce, there's a reason that's so fun and hilarious I mean when he started crying when I told her she's like that is the most summit award ever bodily in what control, emotional control, like she's like you're not coming for me, she's not breaking character, she's not gonna get real wild riled up like our other kids don't either, but like this is an extreme situation oh my god that's amazing she's the person when we're at stuff where somebody says something crazy and she'll look at me and just tilt her head.

00:32:40.781 --> 00:32:43.446
I'm like I know, dude.

00:32:43.446 --> 00:32:50.268
I will tell you this we went to a stingrays game which I haven't been to, and I don't know why we should go.

00:32:50.434 --> 00:32:51.740
Yeah, it's been a gazillion years.

00:32:52.221 --> 00:32:54.603
Okay, I've never been to a stingrays one, I've been to hockey before.

00:32:54.603 --> 00:32:59.782
Yeah, I bought second row tickets because, of course, I'm trying to fall in love.

00:33:00.403 --> 00:33:02.186
Obviously You're trying to be a roaming.

00:33:02.186 --> 00:33:02.586
It's novel.

00:33:03.067 --> 00:33:04.150
Well, and I'm like we.

00:33:04.150 --> 00:33:05.359
I love law.

00:33:05.359 --> 00:33:07.282
I remember how we say I love live music.

00:33:07.282 --> 00:33:08.654
It turns out I like live anything.

00:33:08.654 --> 00:33:13.585
I like live Muay Thai, I like hockey Same all day.

00:33:13.585 --> 00:33:17.480
So we're right on the glass, like we can see them.

00:33:17.480 --> 00:33:19.820
They take their Pallette's, like do you think they're cold or hot?

00:33:19.820 --> 00:33:20.683
They take their helmet off.

00:33:20.683 --> 00:33:21.605
Their hair is all sweaty.

00:33:21.605 --> 00:33:23.721
The goalie is doing splits.

00:33:23.721 --> 00:33:24.859
She's like that's amazing.

00:33:24.859 --> 00:33:27.065
We saw a big fight right in front of us.

00:33:27.125 --> 00:33:28.934
That's my favorite Hockey fight is my favorite.

00:33:29.255 --> 00:33:30.602
We went into double overtime.

00:33:30.602 --> 00:33:50.394
They had to do a shootout and then some of the fans were really trash team and Pat's like, well, I mean, we are going to need people to come here if we want to actually compete and I'm like I know my girls and I are just like we're not getting riled up in the you suck stuff and she's like that's called.

00:33:50.394 --> 00:33:57.278
You know like somebody has to come here if you want to play a game so sensible, I know she's like it's ridiculous.

00:33:57.278 --> 00:33:59.688
They're eating giant, you know stingrays.

00:33:59.688 --> 00:34:01.980
Buckets of freaking popcorn, they're like $20 each.

00:34:02.382 --> 00:34:03.244
Yes, it's ridiculous.

00:34:03.244 --> 00:34:04.862
So did you fall in love at stingrays?

00:34:05.315 --> 00:34:07.723
No, but I had the best time and we have a puck.

00:34:08.815 --> 00:34:09.719
Oh, that's so fun.

00:34:10.322 --> 00:34:11.398
I know I did not catch it.

00:34:11.398 --> 00:34:12.802
To be fair, I will tell you this.

00:34:12.802 --> 00:34:17.005
It came flying over the top and the man next to me caught it and gave it to me.

00:34:17.005 --> 00:34:26.956
Oh that and gave it to me.

00:34:26.956 --> 00:34:27.277
Oh, that's good.

00:34:27.277 --> 00:34:29.264
Yeah, I think he might be like ticket holders, because they were like decked out and they were.

00:34:29.264 --> 00:34:31.050
You could just tell that they were there a lot and you could tell that we had never been.

00:34:31.070 --> 00:34:31.871
And he was like let me help you guys out.

00:34:31.871 --> 00:34:32.172
Oh, that's cute.

00:34:32.172 --> 00:34:37.885
Yeah, we I haven't taken clark to a hockey game yet, but I love live anything like.

00:34:37.885 --> 00:34:39.286
I hate watching golf.

00:34:39.286 --> 00:34:43.364
I hate golf, but I would watch golf in person would you?

00:34:43.364 --> 00:34:52.527
I've never watched golf in person yeah, I've seen gone to like the BMW classic and that one on QA and yeah, I've gone to several golf we got to go golfing this summer.

00:34:52.768 --> 00:34:53.632
That's one of our things.

00:34:53.632 --> 00:34:54.014
Oh my gosh.

00:34:54.094 --> 00:34:56.789
I'm so excited we've got to figure out how to record.

00:34:56.809 --> 00:35:03.226
So while we're doing it, though, because I think that'll be a hoot- I've now was it up on Instagram 19,000 times, but I think we definitely have to go.

00:35:03.226 --> 00:35:04.469
Do not practice before.

00:35:04.469 --> 00:35:10.708
No, no, I mean I haven't held a golf club since I was like eight and probably shouldn't have.

00:35:11.215 --> 00:35:13.097
You don't putt, putt, ma'am.

00:35:14.179 --> 00:35:15.159
No, I don't.

00:35:15.159 --> 00:35:17.163
It's right up there with trivial pursuit.

00:35:17.163 --> 00:35:22.088
What A man asked me on a date to go bowling, First of all.

00:35:22.730 --> 00:35:23.570
I love bowling.

00:35:31.514 --> 00:35:31.775
Not a chance.

00:35:31.775 --> 00:35:32.117
What With you?

00:35:32.117 --> 00:35:33.141
I'll go, but what if I end up liking this man?

00:35:33.141 --> 00:35:35.431
Now, your hands have been, your fingers have been, inside of the three holes of a bowling ball.

00:35:35.431 --> 00:35:38.702
You're not touching my food.

00:35:38.702 --> 00:35:39.525
I'm going all the ways.

00:35:39.525 --> 00:35:41.512
You're not touching my, okay, you're not touching my food.

00:35:41.512 --> 00:35:42.976
You're not touching my drink.

00:35:42.976 --> 00:35:44.480
You're not touching my hand.

00:35:44.480 --> 00:35:46.646
You're not touching my face or anything else.

00:35:46.646 --> 00:35:49.320
No, we are not going bowling.

00:35:49.320 --> 00:35:51.385
That's like six times.

00:35:51.487 --> 00:35:57.405
And I was like is there any particular reason that you cannot come up with a different date, which, by the way, we never went on a date.

00:35:57.405 --> 00:35:59.378
I think that's going to cute, though.

00:35:59.378 --> 00:36:01.360
No, and so you?

00:36:01.360 --> 00:36:02.664
No, it was aggressive.

00:36:02.664 --> 00:36:06.275
And so then he was like well, I'm just really good at bullying.

00:36:06.275 --> 00:36:13.405
And I was like, again, typically for like a first date, I don't know if we should just go to do something that you're incredible at.

00:36:13.405 --> 00:36:15.172
That I'm obviously insecure about.

00:36:15.172 --> 00:36:19.019
And although that's like the best case scenario for the two of us, and he's like will you go Boeing?

00:36:19.079 --> 00:36:19.760
And then I blocked him.

00:36:19.760 --> 00:36:23.847
Interesting, I will tell you.

00:36:23.847 --> 00:36:25.269
There was one other reason that I blocked him.

00:36:25.269 --> 00:36:31.438
Okay, can you say it on air now?

00:36:31.438 --> 00:36:31.998
Yeah, yeah, for sure.

00:36:31.998 --> 00:36:35.887
I said something about like parking in a parking garage, I know, because it's very stressful.

00:36:35.887 --> 00:36:37.358
It's so stressful.

00:36:37.358 --> 00:37:00.260
He said this let me guess your ex-husband did everything for you and I, knowing how much I did and how I like many jobs I have like, whether it's the freaking shrubs or the laundry or the cooking or all my other incomes and jobs and whatever I took everything in my body.

00:37:00.260 --> 00:37:06.445
I was already red flagged over the bullying obsession but like you're wild and then that earned a lot.

00:37:06.936 --> 00:37:09.143
I would have come through the phone.

00:37:09.143 --> 00:37:09.996
It took.

00:37:12.400 --> 00:37:13.563
I don't have words for it.

00:37:13.563 --> 00:37:16.009
It wasn't recently, ugh.

00:37:18.117 --> 00:37:18.981
It was foul.

00:37:18.981 --> 00:37:26.135
Yeah, I don't like that at all All right, who said that?

00:37:26.155 --> 00:37:28.322
meanwhile, on my hinge, an 18 year old said yesterday that he would beg for me.

00:37:28.322 --> 00:37:53.661
So I'm not saying 18's a little young, agreed, I didn't even know you would be on a hinge at 18, but I did have a really good laugh about it because I was like and this folks, is the difference, oh my gosh, between the 65 year olds asking if you work and the 18 year olds like what, in god's name?

00:37:54.043 --> 00:38:00.661
oh my gosh but, and for everyone's for the record, I would never, ever, ever, ever an 18 year old.

00:38:00.661 --> 00:38:06.003
I have friends who have 18-year-olds, but like but you're 25, right, I'm 25.

00:38:06.003 --> 00:38:09.605
I would say 28 is my current comfort level.

00:38:09.605 --> 00:38:14.742
28 is like that's still like, it's like 13 years.

00:38:15.583 --> 00:38:16.885
Oh yeah, how old am I?

00:38:17.447 --> 00:38:18.688
Yes, 13 years.

00:38:19.494 --> 00:38:20.780
Don't ask me to math this morning.

00:38:21.280 --> 00:38:22.244
No, don't, Please don't.

00:38:22.244 --> 00:38:27.442
But he definitely said I would beg for you and I was like I'm going to actually take that.

00:38:27.442 --> 00:38:27.983
Well, let's go back.

00:38:28.335 --> 00:38:28.635
Why is?

00:38:28.655 --> 00:38:29.961
an 18-year-old, a hinge.

00:38:29.961 --> 00:38:32.784
I think they actually like, do this commonly.

00:38:32.784 --> 00:38:35.222
They also do like Tinder and Bumble and all the things.

00:38:35.222 --> 00:38:36.144
It's not for me obviously.

00:38:42.494 --> 00:38:42.835
I have laid to.

00:38:42.835 --> 00:38:43.175
I I have no idea.

00:38:43.175 --> 00:38:44.619
I mean it ain't like an 18 year old's trying to settle on down.

00:38:44.639 --> 00:38:49.949
No, I know he probably liked your mcdonald's thing I did have another one who literally was like this.

00:38:49.949 --> 00:38:52.059
It was probably, like, I think, 24.

00:38:52.059 --> 00:38:57.648
He said um, this is the realest thing I've ever read.

00:38:57.648 --> 00:38:58.416
I'm gonna be honest with you.

00:38:58.416 --> 00:38:58.998
He was 29, actually.

00:38:58.998 --> 00:38:59.762
Okay, that's good, that's a perfect age.

00:38:59.762 --> 00:39:00.346
Realest thing I've ever read.

00:39:00.346 --> 00:39:01.913
I'm going to be honest with you he was 29, actually Okay that's good.

00:39:01.932 --> 00:39:03.577
That's a perfect age Realest thing I've.

00:39:03.577 --> 00:39:04.702
I love.

00:39:04.702 --> 00:39:06.882
Half of my friends are like what?

00:39:06.882 --> 00:39:09.842
And the other half of my friends are like that's perfect for you.

00:39:09.842 --> 00:39:12.181
Yeah totally, but I feel like I'm going to be young, 41.

00:39:13.376 --> 00:39:15.123
Yeah, I feel like we are young in our heads.

00:39:15.123 --> 00:39:17.278
Absolutely Our skincare.

00:39:17.278 --> 00:39:19.302
I'm still 16 in my head.

00:39:19.302 --> 00:39:20.826
I started taking creatine.

00:39:20.826 --> 00:39:26.849
You know I've been doing some research about that, thank you, because.

00:39:29.291 --> 00:39:33.052
I did tell a man that I started taking creatine and they're like, you know, you're just going to bloat up.

00:39:33.052 --> 00:39:34.699
It's for bloating and I was like no, it's not.

00:39:35.240 --> 00:39:36.804
Who talks to you like this.

00:39:37.447 --> 00:39:44.637
Men and you know damn well, jenny, that I love to say stuff for them to show their true colors.

00:39:44.637 --> 00:39:47.945
It is like a bait and shoot program, I'm going to tell you I don't know.

00:39:47.985 --> 00:39:50.458
But damn God, these people are stupid.

00:39:50.458 --> 00:39:53.402
Stupid, it's so good.

00:39:55.106 --> 00:40:01.306
And so of course I was like it is kind of for muscle and water weight if you use it the way that men use it.

00:40:01.306 --> 00:40:13.588
But actually I've been reading a lot about women taking taurine and creatine specifically because apparently after, like in our 30s, we could lose up to 8% of muscle mass a year.

00:40:14.094 --> 00:40:15.601
I know I don't play with muscles.

00:40:15.954 --> 00:40:23.905
No, and that's exactly how we end up with broken bones and broken hips and broken everything, and not being able to like have good balance as you get older.

00:40:24.496 --> 00:40:25.420
I mean that's huge.

00:40:25.420 --> 00:40:30.760
I mean you see, I mean a lot of old people fall for that very reason they don't have the balance.

00:40:30.760 --> 00:40:34.371
So that's one of the things I work on too is like just my balance on my right foot.

00:40:35.034 --> 00:40:44.456
Right, and like they're saying also that creatine and taurine is, they're drastically showing a change in your cognitive loss.

00:40:44.456 --> 00:40:49.485
So, like which, I do not want to go down bat shit crazy.

00:40:49.485 --> 00:40:52.675
I mean, it's my biggest fear, same.

00:40:52.675 --> 00:40:57.003
So I was like, oh, if it's creatine, well, let's say I gained two pounds.

00:40:57.003 --> 00:41:00.070
Cool, I literally couldn't care less.

00:41:00.070 --> 00:41:04.728
If I can keep my brain intact, I'm going to be chewing creatine all day long.

00:41:05.110 --> 00:41:08.023
Let me know which one you, you try, so I'm going to bring it over.

00:41:08.023 --> 00:41:11.340
I got, of course, I got targeted once I started researching it for one.

00:41:11.581 --> 00:41:14.065
Cause there's one at Costco that I've been wanting to try.

00:41:14.065 --> 00:41:14.905
Is it a gummy?

00:41:14.905 --> 00:41:17.349
No, no, this is a gummy.

00:41:17.670 --> 00:41:19.893
Okay, so it's called create.

00:41:19.893 --> 00:41:20.875
Have you seen these?

00:41:22.960 --> 00:41:26.371
Yes, I'll also get targeted for them, cause I was doing research about it as well.

00:41:27.179 --> 00:41:31.730
Well, they're on um Amazon also, so then I can return it.

00:41:31.730 --> 00:41:33.753
But I bought the green one.

00:41:33.753 --> 00:41:36.164
I took my first one today, the sour apple.

00:41:36.164 --> 00:41:37.849
We will see how it goes.

00:41:37.849 --> 00:41:40.802
I wanted to make sure it wasn't going to make me feel bloated or anything.

00:41:40.802 --> 00:41:42.146
Only took one.

00:41:42.146 --> 00:41:46.442
I think you can take up to two to three, but I was like we're just starting out here.

00:41:46.442 --> 00:41:50.010
I don't know you're doing that it's really yummy.

00:41:50.251 --> 00:41:57.840
I really don't want to lose my mind and I do not want to end up in the broken hip camp same, I'm telling you I like it scares me.

00:41:58.903 --> 00:42:04.929
So I texted nate about the dip real quick and he said ah, I can see how that would make a difference.

00:42:04.929 --> 00:42:13.612
I'm going to be laughing about this all weekend.

00:42:13.652 --> 00:42:18.264
I mean like maybe now you won't like it because of how you started off, but there's a drastic difference.

00:42:18.264 --> 00:42:27.242
Like when I open it when it's cold, I'm like wolf, okay, don't recommend I mean, and I knew you didn't like it because you didn't say a word, but I was like it'll come up.

00:42:27.242 --> 00:42:33.405
But I definitely don't think it was meant to be even cold, like uh-huh, yeah, well, it makes sense.

00:42:33.485 --> 00:42:34.148
Now I'll.

00:42:34.288 --> 00:42:37.322
I'll circle back later on this you'll have to come over and try these.

00:42:37.322 --> 00:42:40.028
They taste like um sour patch kids.

00:42:40.028 --> 00:42:42.240
Oh which I.

00:42:42.240 --> 00:42:42.461
Once.

00:42:42.461 --> 00:42:45.211
I heard that I was into it, I'm like, yeah, sign me up.

00:42:45.211 --> 00:42:46.175
They're not cheap.

00:42:46.617 --> 00:42:47.139
Not proud of that?

00:42:47.139 --> 00:42:50.313
No, they're not uh-uh, because I had them in my cart and I was like god.

00:42:50.333 --> 00:42:57.288
This is seems excessive, but I know, but there's 90 in a pack, yeah, so I'm like I don't mind giving it.

00:42:57.288 --> 00:43:02.014
I literally will return this to Amazon if it makes me like 2D or something.

00:43:02.434 --> 00:43:08.030
Yeah, I've been taking like medicine that I am addicted to.

00:43:08.030 --> 00:43:09.525
I'm going to take an airborne.

00:43:10.440 --> 00:43:11.726
Oh, I had an airborne moment.

00:43:11.726 --> 00:43:12.648
Oh my God.

00:43:13.300 --> 00:43:16.588
It's so good for you, but like I'm like I love this stuff.

00:43:18.302 --> 00:43:19.728
I think there's really good stuff in it.

00:43:21.001 --> 00:43:27.030
Well, because the flu and we just got back from Disney where I suppose norovirus was like running rampant.

00:43:27.030 --> 00:43:29.168
I'm like I'm not trying to be shitting my pants.

00:43:29.539 --> 00:43:33.190
Everybody I know is either crapping their pants or has the flu.

00:43:33.510 --> 00:43:35.427
Yeah, so I'm like I ain't trying to do any of that.

00:43:35.427 --> 00:43:40.800
So I've been airborne for about a week and a half now and I am a hook on sinker.

00:43:40.820 --> 00:43:41.081
I'm obsessed.

00:43:41.523 --> 00:43:41.864
I love it.

00:43:42.405 --> 00:43:45.092
I started using the nose spray again because everyone has the damn flu.

00:43:45.092 --> 00:43:46.963
I'm like this cannot, we can't be doing this.

00:43:47.125 --> 00:43:48.447
I hate nose spray.

00:43:48.447 --> 00:43:49.570
I don't like it.

00:43:49.992 --> 00:43:50.860
I don't like it.

00:43:50.860 --> 00:43:54.005
No, no one likes it, but what I don't want is anything growing up there.

00:43:54.005 --> 00:43:57.172
I'm glad that you started researching this creatine thing.

00:43:57.172 --> 00:44:00.297
I think we should get somebody on here to talk to us about this?

00:44:00.356 --> 00:44:00.858
I would love that.

00:44:00.918 --> 00:44:05.163
Yeah, I'll look for that Because I do think.

00:44:05.163 --> 00:44:10.900
I mean, there's so much research that goes to show that any of that kind of research typically is done on men, right?

00:44:10.900 --> 00:44:31.239
We know this from Stacey Sims Typically done on men because it's a lot easier to research them, because they don't have a period cycle and then in our age group they don't have the change of an already non-typical period cycle, right?

00:44:31.239 --> 00:44:42.391
So a lot of the old exercise methodology and like supplement methodology was really just based on men ages I think it's 25 to 32, because they're the easiest to measure, like they're just very easy, simple creatures to measure.

00:44:42.391 --> 00:44:48.728
However, taking that research and just generally applying it to women, we've now realized is actually stupid.

00:44:50.981 --> 00:44:58.351
We shifted from the you need to be skinny, focus to you need to be strong.

00:44:58.351 --> 00:45:08.184
Like I'm telling you, I was at the gym this morning and we did this like partner thing where you like rotate who does bands and like pulls against the other one, and the girl with me she was like holy shit.

00:45:08.184 --> 00:45:10.570
She was like you are so strong and I'm like thank you.

00:45:10.570 --> 00:45:14.746
That is like, yeah, ever get, just in case.

00:45:14.746 --> 00:45:16.690
I need to ever kick somebody on hinges.

00:45:16.811 --> 00:45:24.045
I oh yeah, no, but remember Stacy Sims was the first one that said women are not small men.

00:45:24.045 --> 00:45:26.771
Right, Like they're just not.

00:45:26.771 --> 00:45:28.713
Like that's not who we are.

00:45:28.713 --> 00:45:32.648
That's a crazy thing to act like you can just apply that universally.

00:45:32.648 --> 00:45:37.503
We are completely different with bone density or the way our bodies like changes, we age.

00:45:37.503 --> 00:45:46.630
We're up against a literal period Like men can actually add years to their life by giving blood frequently.

00:45:46.630 --> 00:45:47.911
That's like a real thing.

00:45:47.911 --> 00:45:48.952
What?

00:45:48.952 --> 00:46:07.240
Yeah, Because it it forces your body to replenish natural we don't have to.

00:46:07.260 --> 00:46:07.682
Why would we have to?

00:46:07.682 --> 00:46:08.244
We already have a period.

00:46:08.264 --> 00:46:10.532
I mean it's good for it's good in general, but like we actually have like a semi-cleansing system, just naturally.

00:46:10.552 --> 00:46:11.436
Okay, can we talk about blood for a second?

00:46:11.436 --> 00:46:11.978
Sure, yeah, let's get dirty.

00:46:11.978 --> 00:46:13.641
Have you read about these like platelet?

00:46:13.760 --> 00:46:14.342
facials?

00:46:14.342 --> 00:46:19.829
Um is this with the like needles everywhere or where they put the platelets on you?

00:46:19.829 --> 00:46:21.271
I think, it they like.

00:46:21.271 --> 00:46:23.132
Is it micro needling or platelets?

00:46:23.132 --> 00:46:25.815
I think it's platelets no, I don't know.

00:46:26.119 --> 00:46:33.340
Hang on a second because I read one of the spas, because you know I follow 800 okay, the vampire facial.

00:46:33.902 --> 00:46:39.429
It's a type of facial that uses your own blood to rejuvenate your skin.

00:46:39.429 --> 00:46:47.391
It involves in drawing a small amount of your blood, then spinning it in a centrifuge to separate the platelets from the rest of your blood.

00:46:47.391 --> 00:46:53.467
These platelets are rich in growth factors that help stimulate collagen production and promote healing.

00:46:53.467 --> 00:46:55.927
So I'm like, should we do this?

00:46:55.927 --> 00:46:58.143
Yeah, sure it sounds disgusting.

00:46:58.143 --> 00:46:58.925
But yes, I wonder.

00:46:58.925 --> 00:47:01.686
That's why I want to talk to you about it, because I'm like would she do this?

00:47:01.686 --> 00:47:02.871
Yeah, sure it sounds disgusting but, yes, does I wonder?

00:47:02.891 --> 00:47:04.376
that's what I want to talk to you about, Cause I'm like would she do this?

00:47:04.376 --> 00:47:05.400
Oh yeah, I also saw a thing the other day.

00:47:05.400 --> 00:47:08.465
Have you seen the scar tape that people use?

00:47:08.465 --> 00:47:10.168
Yes, I've used it.

00:47:10.168 --> 00:47:25.068
Okay, well, people are starting to use it where they have wrinkles, because it regenerates collagen, because it's the tape that you put over scars, and so they're taping it around their eyes, and I was like what, why haven't we thought of this?

00:47:25.068 --> 00:47:26.871
I know.

00:47:26.871 --> 00:47:31.505
So I was like we got to talk about this because I actually think there might oh my, God, I'm going to add some more to my cart right now.

00:47:31.766 --> 00:47:33.152
Because I had good scar treatment.

00:47:33.152 --> 00:47:34.760
Yes, and it literally.

00:47:34.760 --> 00:47:40.172
It basically adds collagen to specific areas so that your scars don't reduce the appearance.

00:47:40.172 --> 00:47:47.282
Basically adds collagen to specific areas so that your scars don't reduce the appearance, but apparently it will do it on wrinkles Shut up.

00:47:47.282 --> 00:47:50.630
And you know, I'm all about some kind of like half crunchy version of whatever you can do.

00:47:50.650 --> 00:47:56.610
I love that we say that and then we're like nails and all of the things that we say I had a nail accident a week ago.

00:47:56.690 --> 00:47:59.385
It was absolute, absolute brutality.

00:47:59.606 --> 00:48:00.307
It happened to me too.

00:48:00.307 --> 00:48:01.425
I'm going to send you a picture of it.

00:48:01.425 --> 00:48:05.846
Mine ripped my entire like pinky nail bed off Sucks so bad.

00:48:06.380 --> 00:48:09.911
I also did buy a magnesium spray that I use on.

00:48:09.911 --> 00:48:11.346
It's an oil I use on my feet.

00:48:11.346 --> 00:48:14.708
I'm using it on my feet when I go to bed.

00:48:14.768 --> 00:48:16.864
guys, how is that working for?

00:48:16.905 --> 00:48:20.086
you, god knows, but I'm doing it.

00:48:20.086 --> 00:48:22.192
Do you have a hard time sleeping there?

00:48:24.244 --> 00:48:32.324
well, I mean, I have a hard time getting to sleep okay my brain's a busy brain listen, sister, god darn we were on the opposite.

00:48:32.644 --> 00:48:35.331
Yours, your bed, but wakes up.

00:48:35.331 --> 00:48:37.134
Mine won't go to bed and won't wake up.

00:48:37.134 --> 00:48:38.523
Yes, my.

00:48:38.543 --> 00:48:39.565
So we were on.

00:48:39.565 --> 00:48:41.992
We were on a ride at Epcot last week.

00:48:41.992 --> 00:48:45.751
It was Journey into Figment, like the imagination.

00:48:45.751 --> 00:48:52.273
And there's this part of the ride where you like, go in this room and it's like black light and all like glow in the dark.

00:48:52.273 --> 00:48:56.706
All these crazy things spinning Things are on the ceiling and it's like wild.

00:48:56.706 --> 00:48:57.469
I looked over at Nate.

00:48:57.469 --> 00:48:59.668
I'm like this is what my brain is inside.

00:49:00.380 --> 00:49:07.043
Oh, there's like oh okay, I posted a reel the other day and I was like this is exactly what I feel.

00:49:07.043 --> 00:49:10.032
It was like a person doing research and they were like you know what it was.

00:49:10.032 --> 00:49:11.842
They heard the Enrique Iglesias.

00:49:11.842 --> 00:49:12.985
What is his song?

00:49:12.985 --> 00:49:15.650
Can I Be your Hero, baby?

00:49:15.650 --> 00:49:25.322
Yeah, and he was like gosh, I feel like that was on one of my now CDs.

00:49:25.322 --> 00:49:26.246
And then he did the research to figure out.

00:49:26.246 --> 00:49:26.807
I was like I'm now 14.

00:49:26.807 --> 00:49:27.811
And then he was like how many now CDs are there?

00:49:27.811 --> 00:49:35.092
And then it went and I was like this is exactly why sometimes, yes, it's 90 minutes later and I can be on your trivial pursuit, but I'm like, oh, it's definitely supposed to be somewhere.

00:49:35.092 --> 00:49:47.387
Oops, and this is exactly why, too, I get scared to go on real dates, because I'm like I don't know if you are fully prepared.

00:49:47.668 --> 00:49:52.563
So, like a cute boy, I started talking to somebody on hinge and he was like do you work?

00:49:52.563 --> 00:49:53.626
Which annoyed me.

00:49:53.626 --> 00:49:58.681
He's a little older, because I'm trying to go outside of my regular category.

00:49:58.681 --> 00:50:01.083
Um, and if you, can we not get more interesting topics?

00:50:01.083 --> 00:50:02.244
I'm trying to go outside of my regular category.

00:50:02.264 --> 00:50:03.965
Can we not get more interesting topics?

00:50:04.045 --> 00:50:09.650
I'm sorry, no, no, I agree, but I think he was trying to feel out if I actually like worked.

00:50:09.650 --> 00:50:31.773
So I, of course, blasted right back and I was like I don't get alimony, I do not get child support, everything that I have is something that I have earned, and also one of my favorite jobs makes no money, and so I was like this is either going to make this person unmatch or he's going to ball up and figure out how to have a real conversation.

00:50:31.773 --> 00:50:32.657
Because I was annoyed.

00:50:32.657 --> 00:50:34.623
Clearly you can tell when I'm acting out.

00:50:34.903 --> 00:50:39.032
Yeah, yeah, you don't hot it.

00:50:39.032 --> 00:50:47.327
We're going to lunch on monday.

00:50:47.327 --> 00:50:49.251
Oh, I love that isn't that funny.

00:50:49.311 --> 00:50:52.141
And then I was like a little bit annoyed because I was like, is lunch a cop-out?

00:50:52.983 --> 00:50:56.791
no, okay, thank you why did he ask you to lunch?

00:50:56.791 --> 00:50:57.753
I feel like that's a good one.

00:50:57.753 --> 00:50:59.094
No, he did ask me lunch because let me tell you why.

00:50:59.094 --> 00:50:59.744
Okay lunch, I feel like that's a good one.

00:50:59.744 --> 00:51:00.619
No, he did ask me to lunch Because let me tell you why.

00:51:00.619 --> 00:51:04.210
I feel like lunch is more casual.

00:51:04.210 --> 00:51:06.148
It's not as much pressure as a dinner.

00:51:06.148 --> 00:51:12.132
There's usually not alcohol involved, which I think is better when you're on a first date situation.

00:51:12.132 --> 00:51:14.786
Good yeah, I feel like that's great.

00:51:15.420 --> 00:51:17.969
I just had a moment where I was like am I not special enough for?

00:51:17.989 --> 00:51:18.309
a dinner?

00:51:18.309 --> 00:51:19.322
No, absolutely not.

00:51:19.322 --> 00:51:21.166
If I were a guy, I would 100% do lunch.

00:51:21.166 --> 00:51:23.092
If I would ask girls to a meal.

00:51:24.139 --> 00:51:26.266
Well, and I'm going to dress for lunch, by the way, too.

00:51:26.286 --> 00:51:28.371
Okay, what does that mean?

00:51:28.981 --> 00:51:31.067
I don't know, but it doesn't mean dress like I would for dinner.

00:51:31.067 --> 00:51:34.045
Well, yeah, it's going to be like more casual, right?

00:51:34.045 --> 00:51:49.384
Yeah, for sure, okay, okay, would you wear leggings or jeans?

00:51:49.384 --> 00:51:51.028
I mean, girl, you know me, I'd wear leggings, but I think you should wear jeans.

00:51:51.028 --> 00:51:51.972
I'm gonna wear leggings, are you?

00:51:51.972 --> 00:51:52.273
I was going to?

00:51:52.273 --> 00:51:53.137
I mean, it looks cute with your little crop.

00:51:53.137 --> 00:51:53.920
It's like at a barbecue place.

00:51:53.920 --> 00:52:02.764
Yeah, right, sneakers and leggings and jeans or leggings, that a little crop, and I'll just be like my normal day to day.

00:52:02.764 --> 00:52:05.329
Like you know, I have 9 million jobs, like you.

00:52:05.329 --> 00:52:06.413
We've talked enough.

00:52:06.413 --> 00:52:10.702
Although he's very careful, we only go back and forth maybe two or three times a day, which is good.

00:52:10.702 --> 00:52:12.686
It's not like that obsessive.

00:52:12.686 --> 00:52:19.907
Yeah, um, but I'm like I'm going to show up the person that exactly what I told you like I'm going to have to run to gymnastics after and do all the things.

00:52:19.907 --> 00:52:23.213
So I need to be like my normal self.

00:52:23.974 --> 00:52:24.635
I love that.

00:52:24.635 --> 00:52:28.769
I feel like I'm coming out the gate as you Great.

00:52:29.170 --> 00:52:29.512
Self.

00:52:29.512 --> 00:52:33.246
But just not like the elevated version, just like my normal day to day.

00:52:33.246 --> 00:52:34.909
Yeah, I mean, it's barbecue.

00:52:34.909 --> 00:52:35.771
I can't be like.

00:52:37.414 --> 00:52:38.601
Yeah, I mean I wouldn't wear a white shirt.

00:52:38.621 --> 00:52:42.891
I yeah, I mean I wouldn't wear a white shirt, I don't actually even know what I'm going to order, which is crazy, so we're going to talk about that too.

00:52:42.891 --> 00:52:47.704
You definitely don't order ribs.

00:52:47.704 --> 00:52:55.514
Well, I know I wasn't going to order ribs, but then I was like I don't order a salad either, because the last time I got salad at this place they cut it like I was going to be a giraffe.

00:52:55.514 --> 00:53:04.807
I chew on it forever and I can't stand when people are lazy about vegetables, but like at what point I'm like you can do like a turkey breast.

00:53:06.110 --> 00:53:07.554
I love barbecue restaurant turkey.

00:53:08.161 --> 00:53:09.505
Do you tell me why?

00:53:09.505 --> 00:53:11.451
Because I don't know if I would have ever chosen that.

00:53:11.739 --> 00:53:14.306
Because, I just love good dry turkey.

00:53:14.565 --> 00:53:16.208
I love a dry turkey.

00:53:16.750 --> 00:53:25.021
I live for some dry turkey, love a dry turkey.

00:53:25.021 --> 00:53:26.385
I live for some dry turkey, like I really do love it though why?

00:53:26.405 --> 00:53:26.907
because I hate wet meat.

00:53:26.927 --> 00:53:27.951
You know this about me it's true, I hate women too.

00:53:27.951 --> 00:53:31.625
Where was I the other day and I took a bite of some and I was like nope, done with that.

00:53:31.625 --> 00:53:32.487
Nope, never again.

00:53:32.487 --> 00:53:33.389
Nope, nope, nope, nope.

00:53:33.389 --> 00:53:38.726
And yet you tried philly cheesesteak dip Gold.

00:53:38.726 --> 00:53:42.193
You never used the word Queso.

00:53:44.467 --> 00:53:45.050
I didn't have to.

00:53:45.382 --> 00:53:51.090
I really only used it once I realized it's like hard kind of Me, and you have talked about it on various occasions.

00:53:51.090 --> 00:53:58.927
Kirsten talked about it and, like truly none of you, ever said anything about warming it up, isn't?

00:53:58.967 --> 00:54:05.034
it like wet Kind of, when you open it like when you wanted to be I'm gonna throw up because it was not good.

00:54:05.054 --> 00:54:06.820
It really was not good.

00:54:06.820 --> 00:54:09.846
Yeah, I'm like all right.

00:54:09.846 --> 00:54:16.463
Well, they're adamant about it and like I trust you, so I'm like I'm gonna go back and try again with a different vessel.

00:54:16.463 --> 00:54:17.606
Let's's go cracker.

00:54:17.606 --> 00:54:19.750
Nope, still didn't like it either.

00:54:19.889 --> 00:54:21.934
Why is the carve in trouble?

00:54:21.934 --> 00:54:22.333
I don't know.

00:54:22.333 --> 00:54:25.146
Get a scoop and get after it.

00:54:25.146 --> 00:54:29.047
It's hot, hot, piping, hot man.

00:54:29.047 --> 00:54:30.083
It's like buffalo dip.

00:54:30.083 --> 00:54:31.869
Do you eat cold buffalo dip?

00:54:31.869 --> 00:54:35.128
No, I heat up my buffalo dip.

00:54:35.128 --> 00:54:38.797
Well yeah, oh, my god, it's a cheese base.

00:54:38.797 --> 00:54:42.907
It's the same, it's in the same section.

00:54:42.907 --> 00:54:45.793
Do you think I pay attention to stuff like that?

00:54:45.793 --> 00:54:57.313
And now I'm so curious, now, like, does it not really say that to hear I am dying, so this episode releases a few days before the Super Bowl.

00:54:58.201 --> 00:55:03.045
I know and I cannot wait to come on and talk about no, that's one of my favorite episodes we ever did.

00:55:03.045 --> 00:55:04.869
I know it's super fun.

00:55:04.869 --> 00:55:14.545
We, I think we have an episode airing and um, isn't the it wouldn't that be the 13th?

00:55:14.545 --> 00:55:16.722
Erica's episode is the 13th.

00:55:16.802 --> 00:55:17.724
Yeah, so we'll have to.

00:55:17.724 --> 00:55:17.985
We'll do it.

00:55:17.985 --> 00:55:19.148
Erica's episode is the 13th.

00:55:19.148 --> 00:55:19.909
Yeah, so we'll have to, we'll do it.

00:55:19.909 --> 00:55:21.572
The Super Bowl episode will drop on the 20th.

00:55:21.572 --> 00:55:31.501
Yep, yeah, and I love it because.

00:55:31.541 --> 00:55:32.461
I'm here for the snacks and the commercials.

00:55:32.461 --> 00:55:33.963
I am like so excited to dig into it.

00:55:33.963 --> 00:55:35.846
It'll actually give us a little bit more time too.

00:55:35.846 --> 00:55:39.349
We'll have to set up a time to meet right after when we're still really excited.

00:55:40.170 --> 00:55:42.773
Yeah, we had just the text message chain going last year.

00:55:43.213 --> 00:55:50.748
No, you only let that go on for about two and a half minutes and then you were like, save it for tomorrow.

00:55:50.748 --> 00:55:59.659
That is true, yeah, you were like, no, I got to, you were like just coming back from a trip and, you like, threw your suitcase on the ground.

00:55:59.659 --> 00:56:03.184
It was Jamaica, oh yeah, and you were like we got to get right after this.

00:56:03.204 --> 00:56:05.670
I love the Superbowl and clearly I have a good snack now that I know that I need to heat up the dip.

00:56:06.521 --> 00:56:13.163
Well, I'm like literally looking online, but it doesn't say, it doesn't show me the sides of the container so I can see.

00:56:13.163 --> 00:56:19.092
If it says heated up, I just I don't.

00:56:19.092 --> 00:56:22.135
I I mean I was served it that way by brett.

00:56:22.135 --> 00:56:27.065
It says microwave safe container was that the tale?

00:56:27.344 --> 00:56:28.586
what should I, should I have?

00:56:28.586 --> 00:56:29.369
He did that.

00:56:29.369 --> 00:56:37.844
He did that it definitely says microwave it does say that, but it does not say there's like no directions.

00:56:37.844 --> 00:56:39.626
They're probably a little ugly cold.

00:56:40.686 --> 00:56:53.302
That's something I mean I hate, that my friend brett grant, who doesn't cook at all, heated it up for us okay.

00:56:53.302 --> 00:56:58.170
So all right, we listen and we don't judge.

00:56:58.210 --> 00:56:59.012
We don't judge.

00:56:59.012 --> 00:56:59.833
I'm an idiot.

00:56:59.833 --> 00:57:00.914
I should have heated up the dip.

00:57:02.603 --> 00:57:05.150
I think if you're going to give it a real shot.

00:57:06.860 --> 00:57:10.731
Just stay tuned for a text message from me tonight, because I'm going to go back in.

00:57:11.782 --> 00:57:16.710
I want you to have an open mind and think of it more like Philly cheese queso.

00:57:16.710 --> 00:57:18.273
Okay, I'm open.

00:57:20.902 --> 00:57:21.967
We are wrapping up.

00:57:21.967 --> 00:57:26.271
Thank you all for tuning in and we will see you next week.